WHATS HAPPENING MONDAY

Dear Jan and OH Peeps~

What a Monday it has been....Pretty good one, so far-I must say-and I had so much fun this morning at court.....What a blast to watch the BIL and his ex wife-and scumball just like him-squirm-and they were squirming. Little BIL couldnt stay off his cell phone and rarely made eye contact-and you can bet every time he did look our direction-someone was staring him down-he knew that there were a LOT of people-who werent playing games no more-and that he didnt want to be on the wrong side of this bunch...There was something like 15 Bikers-all decked out in their chaps and leather jackets and vests-and all had the patches on for the children. BACA. Bikers Against Child Abuse. A VERY intimadating group if I must say so myself!!!!! Mark would really be off his rocker if he kept it up...... I was so proud to shake hands and hug these men and women. What a difference they make in so many peoples lives-and as a survivor of EVERY kind of abuse you can think of-as a child-I know that I wished there would have been organizations like that for me and my brother when we were growing up-I am passionate about helping them with fundraisers and would LOVE to get a bike and become a part of their organization. Will see.

They ALL came into the actual courtroom with us. They took up two whole long rows of seat-like pews. I was by the wall-and I couldnt shut up-that dink got up on the witness stand and lied his *SS off!! Then he started to cry and I was like-go to California and be on All My Children you freaking faker-your pathetic-and then he didnt realize he wa****ting Mel because his glasses were broke and he was just swinging his arms-he actually told the judge that he thought that Terry was the one who hit Mel in the face with a shovel~~! I was like-you LYING SACK OF *HIT......The BILs Ex wife (the scumball) was sitting behind me over one so when I would turn to look at the Biker sitting next to me-I could see her and every time I made a comment about Mark-she was sitting there staring at me-and I stared her down and said he was pathetic and what a liar he was and I wondered WHY so many women let that PO**** them and abuse them? After MEL AND TERRY WON- THEY HAVE A YEAR OF ORDER OF PROTECTION. We know Mark will do what he wants-but at least this will give them the right to have HIM ARRESTED IF he messes with them. So-When Mark was up on the stand lying-he contradicted his story in so many different places it wasnt funny-and the judge already knew he was a liar-so when Mel and Terry wanted to ask questions he told them no-and we were all kind of getting upset-well, he said no-because he already made up his mind and knew he was ruling in their favor-afterwards-he told Mel that we shouldnt have any problems leaving the building today with the group we had protecting us (no crap!!) Well-we were waiting for our paperwork that was signed by the judge and so on-and Mark and Ester had to wait as well- I was like-I need to go have a cigarette after 15 minutes or so and I look over and Mark and Ester are walking down the stairs (elevator broken-3rd floor we were on) Ok-so I had been saying I wanted him to start with me....well-there was a policer officer behind Mark and Ester-then there was me. We get down the 3 flights of stairs-and there are members of the BACA in every corner of the courthouse-I looked up and said-I didnt see you guys come past me (They didnt pass me on the stairs) and he said-its our job to protect you too-your with the family, right? Yes-but.....WOW!! Thanks. Then, at the bottom of the stairs Mark looks up and says-thanks for walking me down here officer. I appreciate it. I was like WHAT? YOU *USSY....WHATS WRONG? "YOU" CANT INTIMIDATE THEM TODAY? WAAA WAAA-HAHAHAHAHAHA..... jerk-and wouldnt you know it-they walked the opposite way of me-and the BACA members where they were standing. I LOVED IT...He was crapping his pants when he realized those bikers were with Mel and Terry! IT WAS AWESOME....IM ON A HIGH!!!!

The unfortunate thing is that the desperation is going to get worse and worse now. Because of the fact that his dad and Adrian both reside at the address that Mark is NOT allowed to visit. I am still worried-but not as bad as before because of the fact that they now have the stun guns, the alarm system and mace. Its going to be okay. Maybe by the end of summer all this other crap will be okay? Maybe, just maybe?

Well, Sunday was the perfect hunting day and we were out-bad start to the day tho-hit a bunny on our way out there-tried to swerve and miss it-and it moved same time! Darn it-then got almost to our spot and where we had to cross the river-I tripped over a log and fell-right in cow manure and mud. Yep-I was so freaking happy. Now I am bound and determined even more than ever to get my turkey....We were calling them in and we had 3 coming-and your NOT going to believe this-but a pack of wild dogs or dogs that had packed up together anyway-all the sudden are right there and they are going nuts-ALL birds, turkeys and you name it left-flew away. Mike and I just packed our stuff up and headed home. We knew with those dogs going there and being right there like that-we werent going to get anything the rest of the day-darn it.

**Jan-Yes I did say that Stephanie was living with him WHEN and IF he moves back-Im sick of all of the mind games and then the mental anguish we all go through here-and Eric didnt say a word and Adam said-Okay, she can....Yep, you bet she can, you dont really have a choice. He was suppose to pick her up from school today and tell her goodbye-and of course, he texts ME and says he had to leave early and tell Steph goodbye for him and that he loves her and would love to hug her but had to go-and I was like-NO butthole-you call her or text her yourself. I AM NOT doing your dirty work-dink~ and the house is supposedly being closed on in 2 weeks. Will believe it when I see it. Not until. ALthough he called the state of MO for the child support to ask them to release the lien on his house and they told him that the funds must be paid BEFORE they will release the lien and he said well, HOW I am I suppose to sell the house then? And the lady told him at closing they will cut us a check and he will get the balance and he said-Well, I am the one just signing the deed over-we arent using a closing company and she said-well, then you will have to send the funds in first. YAY...Was so happy about that. I knew if they would release it first-we wouldnt ever see our money.

I did call the doctor and am waiting for a call back to get my gb surgery over and done with. Yes, I truly wish both were being done at once-would be awesome, but dont think I will be successful with that. So-doing gb first since its most threatening. Hope, so hope that I will NOT gain weight when its fixed......Like where I am at too much now!~

To everyone-Love and Prayers to ALL of you-I miss being on the board when I am not here-and I do pray for all of you. Vesta-Your gonna do great with your surgery and yes, the next time I am in West Plains-your stuck with us for a bit so we can all get together. We miss you. Is surgery in SPringfield? Angy-Congrats on the weight loss-its only going to get better *and harder* but you can do it darlin!~! Brenda-Your in my prayers too-I wish I did live closer to help you out-although, Im sure your church congregation wouldnt want to hear me sing!! LOL.. I cant carry a tune for anything. Bev-good luck on your move! Congrats on your weight loss!~ Tammy-your such a silly woman!~ Cant believe you would think you hadnt done good enough in your weight loss so far! Good thing your far enough away that my foot cant meet your butt! Love ya and proud of you. NOW-be good to yourself.

See ya all tomorrow! Gotta get and get some laundry done and relax a bit havent been home too long! Love ya-Janet