Psych Eval Results.... HELP! ! !

Okay, I just got back from the meeting where I got the results of my Psych Eval.... She finally came and got me out of the waiting room at 3:10 and I was home by 3:30. She said I was accepted but it was under the delay surgery but approved section which was one up then just being rejected. WTF? I am so upset! She said my PTSD played a HUGE part into this. Well, everyone has it hard in one way or another. But, the important thing which I asked her to include is that I am in therapy and have been for a few months for it. I was shocked that I got the answer I did. But, then again she wasnt in favor of wls to begin with. She also said that my smoking also is a negitive issue. I was like WHAT???? I have NEVER smoked in my life!!! She said well, the girls up front must of made a mistake...Not to be rude, but they are freshly out of high school and I think she should of double checked the report or scored it herself. So, how I do know that the eval was even tested correctly? I asked for a copy of the corrected evalution. I am so worried I have no idea what Dr. H's staff will do delay it or denie helping me? My son came home from school telling me a neighbor kid was making fat jokes about me to him and their other friends. My feelings are so hurt, I fed this kid, gave him money so he could go to the movies with us. I feel betrayed by a freaking teenager, but my feelings are so hurt! I am having a horrible day. I knew something would be messed up by the results.... Nothing ever seems to go my way. The kids made frosted cinnamon rolls for an after school snack and asked if I want one ( they know I am usually an emotional eater) and I said No, thanks! I really hope someone could offer some advice I am really upset about all this. Maybe I dont belong here anymore since I dont know if I am even going to be able to have the surgery? I dont know what to do with myself? I was banking on having it and having a new life, but I knew I was going to be all distraught if the results didnt come back good and to me they didnt. I guess I will know at a later time if Dr. H is going to help me or not.  Depending on when they decide to fax off the results. It took 4 weeks to get an answer that had errors in it... who knows how long it will take to push a few buttons. I am sorry that I sound so negitive but I dont know what to do but wait.... again!

Bless your heart girl- I feel so bad for you!  I would sic Dr. Hornbostel on them...I bet he knows how to handle this.  If nothing else, ask for a second opinion.  And by all means write a report on this nut doctor and send it in to your insurance company.  If she is giving you grief, throw it right back at her-  I'm mad with you!  Hang tough, there will be many things to work around, but not this rediculus!

Brenda

I am so sorry that they are f-ing you around.  Did you go to their psycologist or someone you chose.  I went to one that I chose.  I would definitly ask your dr what to do, explaining that apparently they don't have their facts straight.  Maybe you can get a second one done.  Kids are so mean!  They have no idea how much their stupid remarks can hurt someone.  Don't get yourself too down about it.  Things will work out.    Angy

Thank you guys so much! I need this support. I was and still am a little really sadened by this with the kid. Probably the kids remarks just added onto the stress of a "professional" that obviously doesnt know what she is doing. I chose her. She did the assessment for my 13 yr old and I am also considering having a 2nd opinion on that too! She is in the same office as my therapist that my son and I see. We both have PTSD, but go at different times. I am going to talk to Dr. H's office tomorrow and I am VERY unpleased with her! I am going to write a letter to Medicare or call them and see about her NOT being paid or atleast put in a complaint against her because something really isnt right since she thought I was a smoker. I had posted the same topic on the Main board and the response I got was great! I received a good one from a Psychologist herself!! I am really feeling alot better now, thank you all!