I need a friend right now--- OT

I havent said anything to anyone on here because I well I just didnt---but now I really need a friend My husband and I have been living with my parents since Jan 2005--after getting pregnant with the twins , losing a job because I was pregnant, losing our apartment, getting run over breaking my leg--well in July of this year my dad kicked my husband out--- Yes he had troubles with jobs either due to downsizing, layoffs--what have ya---but my husband also preferred at times to be in front of the computer and not be with me, the twins and Maddie (shes 6) ,he didnt help out much--so one day my dad had enough and kicked him out--- He was homeless for about 3 weeks--spent 3 weeks in a hotel and then found a place to live with a roommate not far from us---I took the kids to see him once a week on Saturdays--we decided to work out things between us--before we would live together again---We wanted to make it work---- Well he got laid off again in September and with one vehicle its been hard to find something to work around my hours----8am to 2pm in Earch city near STL----- The thing is--my mom and dad want to be at my surgery but without him being there---Im s tuck--I cant do much --they are helping me out-----My husband understood--kinda---- Well--tonight I just got to read my emails of him saying he has left to go to KC where his family lives--I didnt get to say good bye or talk to him today or anything--- I dont know when I will hear from him or see him again----- SO Im a little ummm sad, upset, crying----please pray that the people who picked him up and took him up there --were good people and wont hurt him and pray for me and my children that we will get thru this.   He said he would contact me soon as he could---although he is not allowed to call the house--my parents changed the # when they kicked him out---so he can only do it by email. Sorry to dump this on you all --but I needed to talk-- Well gee I will lose more weight now since being upset--I cant eat--but thats a  good thing eh? Well I need to go and explain to our 6 yr old where daddy is ---or--isnt. Love to all Amber

Honey, I am so sorry you are dealing with this.  My heart goes out to you and your children.  You are in my prayers. Patty 

Amber i am praying that you may have your eyes opened to this situation. and That God will care for you and your babies.  Love and hugs  Jan

Dear Amber,  You came to the right place! We are always here to listen and to say prayers! We have some of the most awesome prayer warriors on this board!!! I am so sorry to hear you are dealing with all of this on top of everything else. Please know I am keeping you, your children and even your hubby in my prayers. I pray that Gods will, will be done-and I am happy to hear, that you and the kids have a roof over your heads and a safe place to be. Love and Prayers,  Janet

Sounds like your parents LOVE you and your kids and although this is all very painful and you may be hurt by some of their actions, remember they do love you and now that you are a parent surely you can appreciate that and all it means. Whatever comes of your marriage, I pray God gives you the strength to get through.  This WLS journey is hard ......you need to keep supportive people around you, just remember that!!!!! Hugs,

amber,  I want you to know that you are in my prayers and I hope that this will turn out well for you and your children.  If you ever need to talk feel free to contact me,  Hugs,   Layla

Amber..I am so sorry to hear all that you are going thru and have been going thru...Prayers went up for you and your babies as I read your post....I know you feel torn at the moment but God has his reasons for everything that goes on in our lives....Stay strong and hang in there....Soon things will change for you and the kids....I will keep you in my prayers...for strength and that God leads you towards a better life for you and the kids.... Hugs..Tammy~ammy

Sweetheart I am so sorry, I will be praying for you and your family, just give it some time....vesta

Amber,     Stay strong and continue to pray, regardless of how difficult it is. You will be in my daily prayers.      Colette

BE STRONG FOR YOUR GIRLS!!!! YOU WILL OVER COME THIS!!! IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE HE WILL BE BACK!! BUT YOU HAVE TO DO WHATS BEST FOR YOU RIGHT NOW (just like he is doing what is best for him) THE STRONGER YOU ARE WILL REFLECT ON YOUR GIRLS. My mom went through the same thing and now I look up to my mom knowing what she went through empowers me to be my very best. Girl you will survive.  Keep that attitude! Angela