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Bobbie Smith
on 9/8/07 9:49 am - Ashland, MO

Yes i know that I am the one in the family undergoing the surgery the liquid diet the life change.... yes I know that I should be thankful that my DH supports me in all this but frankly right now I truly am not happy with him at all....This whole liquid diet thing sucks period...but I am sticking with it and doing okay...havent cheated...so he is going to go to town and get a key for a job tomorrow and I was wanting to go and he says well you will have to sit and watch me eat I am going to eat while I get the key! I said what!!! I want to go to go to the bookstore after with him and he is going to go out to eat KNOWING that I cant have anything... now the part that made me mad was that he asked me to go and said I am going to pick up the key and go to the bookstore then when I finally said yeah I will go he adds in the going out to eat bit....am I wrong to be pissed at him for being an inconsiderate pain in my rear at the moment ....is it the emotions of all that is going on??... I mean there is plenty of food in the house that I cooked today for the family...ugh anyway sorry for ranting just having issues today I guess

You must begin to think of yourself as becoming the person you want to be, before you can actually become that person.

This ticker indicates the weight loss from my highest point
Highest-----350
Liquid Diet----334
10/15/2007----284
11/02/2007-----279
11/08/07------274
12/19/2007---250
01/22/2008--244

mecoswan
on 9/8/07 10:23 pm - Concordia, MO

RNY on 11/14/05

Hang in there Boobie. I think you are having a tough time right now - with emotions and probably food withdrawal and wanting foods other than liquids. It is very hard but just take one hour at a time and one day at a time. Soon your day will be here. Try to think of it as maybe your DH was trying to have something to eat that he was wanting, and did not want to make a big issue of it. And did not want to bring it home and eat in front of you. Hang in there. Colette

mecoswan
on 9/8/07 10:24 pm - Concordia, MO

RNY on 11/14/05

I meant Bobbie - sorry - a slip of the fingers

Bobbie Smith
on 9/9/07 3:12 am - Ashland, MO

RNY on 09/21/07

Thanks and yeah I know he did not mean anything by it but it sure enough ran through me yesterday... and as for the slip of the finger lol my friends all type my name as boobie in messages on this goofy computer lol My best friend and her husband both do it since they live in Canada its cheaper to talk on here lol so its a joke and funny now when anyone does it lol thanks for the support

You must begin to think of yourself as becoming the person you want to be, before you can actually become that person.

This ticker indicates the weight loss from my highest point
Highest-----350
Liquid Diet----334
10/15/2007----284
11/02/2007-----279
11/08/07------274
12/19/2007---250
01/22/2008--244

Bretrenee
on 9/10/07 12:19 pm - Saint Louis, MO

Lap Band on 08/30/07

Bobbie, I read your post and totally understand! My husband is also being very supportive but the liquid diet is so hard and smelling the food in the house is hard, the commercials and all of it. Yesterday he sat next to me and ate buttered bread! I thought my hair was going to stand on end! haha It is difficult but we can do it. Today I was drinking protien in a shake and the commercial on TV was for OREO pizza at Dominos! We are bombarded with the images and smells and all the food. I just think about how much weight I will lose and how my diabetes with be better and try to hang in there. I know it is hard on us now-the liquid part I am sure is the hardest few weeks. I am 2 weeks post op this Thursday and I honestly did not think I was going to make it but the other ladies are right-one hour and one day at a time and we will move on to the next phase. Good luck to you!

Bret Renee Nelson

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Bobbie Smith
on 9/10/07 1:58 pm - Ashland, MO

RNY on 09/21/07

Thanks you for your post....I appreciate knowing u guys stories too...it helps to hear others going through it even htough we already know they are... if that makes sense....

You must begin to think of yourself as becoming the person you want to be, before you can actually become that person.

This ticker indicates the weight loss from my highest point
Highest-----350
Liquid Diet----334
10/15/2007----284
11/02/2007-----279
11/08/07------274
12/19/2007---250
01/22/2008--244

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