my grandaughter
I was 3 months along when I lost my first, and gave birth in the ER 11 years ago, and I still mourn over the lost child. People try to be kind, but sometimes say the wrong things. I got books to help me mourn, and family really helped me through it. Just be there for her and let her talk. This was the worst pain and sorrow I thought I would ever live through. I will definitely be thinking about her.