3 years ago today
t's been 3 years today since I went under the knife to have a surgery to change my life and how i live. Alot has changed over the last 3 years. A year after i had surgery i had lost 150 pounds and realize i wasnt happy with my husband at the time for his didnt want me buying clothes that fit and tried getting me to saftey pin my underwear i had way to much and I left and moved back to oklahoma to were I manage to gain about 39 pounds from now having a man to control what i put in my mouth. I started drinking soda and eating all the wrong things and yes this was all y fault but I got into some bad things after I divorced and let my life slip away for awile. It took me 3 months to wake up and realize what i was doing to my life was wrong and I didnt lose all this weight to fail and be unhappy. So I moved hope to my parents and go my life in control no i didnt lose or gain anymore weight but I worked on my life. At my 2 year anniversary of wls i had still manage to keep 120 pounds off and was still loving life. In Aug of 2005 I met the best man in the world who lovea me and didnt want to change me who went threw his x wife having the surgery and trying to control him and pretty much just left him. Him and I moved in together in Sept 2005 and by Oct we where expecting our 1st child which both of us tried in pervious marriages. Lets say him and I where very shocked and excited cause we told each other we couldnt have kids and belive it or not this was gods miracle. At the time i got prego my weight was 206 and by May 25th the day i had him vis emergency c-section I weight 232 and here i am 3 years post op and i am weighting in at 212 which is still over 100 pound lost but i eat like a horse and i really need to get that under control. Would I have this surgery again you bet i would with flying colors. This surgery saved my life and gave me the chance to have a better life and do things I couldnt do before.
If I could give one peice of advice for those looking into surgery BE SURE THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT!!! It by far is not easy and you have to listen to your drs they know whats best for you. I have struggled but like i said i would do it again.
Your welcome to look at my profile for pictures!!!
Congratulations! Isn't it amazing the way God bless' us? I am so happy for you to have a good man and a beautify baby that is a special gift from God. Life can be hard at times but if we keep our faith and don't let ourselves get down then it always seems to work out in the long run. May God continue to bless you.
Sky