Off Topic, but maybe helpful
We got where we were by using food to blunt life's challenges. We had the surgery to get back to a healthier person and hopefully a new life with more positive actions. Many a few years out find themselves back into old destructive habits. Maybe it is like my pappy said (or somebody else) " It's not what is said, but your reaction to it.)
I ran across this article that may remind us of what is important. I found one item self fullfilling: and that was getting and staying healthy. So here it is from the "getting rich slowly site" I recommend reading the whole article.
The Psychology of Happiness----13 steps to a better life
True wealth is not about money. True wealth is about relationships, about good health, and about continued self-improvement.
http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/08/25/the-psychology- of-happiness-13-steps-to-a-better-life/
I ran across this article that may remind us of what is important. I found one item self fullfilling: and that was getting and staying healthy. So here it is from the "getting rich slowly site" I recommend reading the whole article.
The Psychology of Happiness----13 steps to a better life
True wealth is not about money. True wealth is about relationships, about good health, and about continued self-improvement.
http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2008/08/25/the-psychology- of-happiness-13-steps-to-a-better-life/