Now I'm getting nervous...

The first time I thought seriously about WLS was seven years ago.  I didn't have insurance that would cover it-
Now, I'm at the end, but the beginning of the journey and I'm starting to think too much about it.

My surgery date is March 8.  I am so excited, but so scared at the same time.  All of the "what if's" about surgery are coming up.  I am trying to stay away from any negative posts on the rest of the site about lapband, but find myself second guessing my choices.  Should I have asked for a different procedure?  What if I'm in the minority that has a very serious issue with surgery?

Everything should be good!  Have a date, told my boss...no barriers.

My mindset is to do everything i need to do between now and then and not dwell on what ifs.  it will be a long six weeks if I do that!

thanks for reading! 

Good luck with your upcoming surgery!!   

We all went through the emotions you're going through right now, the "what if's" right before surgery.  I think it's completely normal to wonder what will things be like, am I making the right decision, etc.  But, like you said, you've been thinking about this for about 7 years now, so that's a long time to think about your decision, do research, talk with others, meet with doctors, etc.  I think it's just a bit of "panic mode" that comes over all of us as a big surgery nears that we start to doubt ourselves, but just remember why you made this decision & remember how much your life will benefit from this surgery. 

These next 6 weeks will fly by & your big day will be here before you know it & then your new life will begin!  It will be an exciting new journey & you'll have all of us here to support you along the way!!  I can't wait to scoot over to make room for you on the losers bench!    Keep us posted on how things go with your surgery & recovery, & keep posting as your surgery approaches & you have anymore 'what if' questions post them on here cuz' trust me you aren't alone in feeling like that. 

I am happy for you to finally get your surgery date. Your feelings about being excited and scared at the same time is very normal. If you didn't have those feelings, then, there would be a problem. This is a big decision and should not be taken lightly and it sounds like you put a lot thought and weighed the decision, well.

The lapband may work for you, it may be your tool for success. With the lapband it isn't a permanent alteration to your body, and that is an important issue. I  wish you luck in you journey you are embarking on.

Keep me posted on your progress, others and myself are but a feel key strokes away. The first 6 six months after surgery is the most alterating. You are adjusting to a different life style, your body and mind is adjusting to the change, and you are watching a miracle happen. You are losing weight successfully for the first time in a very long time.

The next six weeks will be a looooooooooong six weeks, but this is a time to set yourself up for the long haul.

I wish you well.

Cheryl

 Oh I had the same "can I really do this" thoughts bouncing around my head.  It's normal.  I'd be worried if you didn't.  It would probably mean you weren't taking it seriously.

Bottom line, you'll be fine.   I'm almost 4 wks out of RNY and have had some obstacles but have not ever second guessed my decision.  This was the right thing for me and I'm guessing you will feel the same way.

The lead up is hard, it's filled with emotion.  My best advice is to go in prepared, have everything you need before you go in.  Be patient and remember it's a process.  I forget sometimes that it will get easier.  The first few weeks are exciting and there is a big learning curve.  Ask questions and read!  You are going to be happy you did it and it's gonna be great!

Good luck!

Tess

Totally normal to feel all of these things. Do you go to any support groups? We love to have people come before their surgeries - the more you know before you have it, the better prepared you will be. You are doing a great thing for yourself! Let me know if you want any info on support groups for lap band.
Jean B.