Need surgery for the head to shrink the image I see
I SOOOO hear you on this one...I will stand infront of the full-length mirror and be talking to my fiancee and ask him how he can stand to be with a fatty like me...he doesn't get it....all I see is fat and baggy skin and it just grosses me out...I do have a before pic taped to my mirror, however, and that does help A LOT!
As far as the beating yourself up about it - I don't know what to say...I do the same thing. I have been going to a couselor that deal specifically with people that have had WLS and knows the mind games we have to go through, and that has helped quite a bit.
As far as the beating yourself up about it - I don't know what to say...I do the same thing. I have been going to a couselor that deal specifically with people that have had WLS and knows the mind games we have to go through, and that has helped quite a bit.
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I'm early out so I shouldn't pipe in but I'm loosing so fast that I'm starting to sag and I knew this was a possibility beforehand and trying not to be to concerned with this issue I know myself well enough that I will 
obsess about this.
Also I'm not real good with male attention so I'm super awkward when it comes my way, always been this way.
Here's a funny story that just happened recently; I was heading into a store and saw there was some younger guys (probably my older sons age,25) and I noticed the driver was looking at me and ready to say something out the window I was so uncomfortable I picked up the pace to get into the store that when I got to the door in a hurry the door got stuck on my shoe and I fumbled to not hit my nose on the door just to get inside... I had to think to myself what a dork I am.
I'm not sure this will inspire you to not be so hard on yourself but I hope at least you get a little chuckle, but when your having a hard day try not to fumble and hit your nose!
TrishG
obsess about this. Also I'm not real good with male attention so I'm super awkward when it comes my way, always been this way.
Here's a funny story that just happened recently; I was heading into a store and saw there was some younger guys (probably my older sons age,25) and I noticed the driver was looking at me and ready to say something out the window I was so uncomfortable I picked up the pace to get into the store that when I got to the door in a hurry the door got stuck on my shoe and I fumbled to not hit my nose on the door just to get inside... I had to think to myself what a dork I am.
I'm not sure this will inspire you to not be so hard on yourself but I hope at least you get a little chuckle, but when your having a hard day try not to fumble and hit your nose!
TrishG
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