If I knew then what I know now...

Wow! The wisdom on the MN Board...

I will add that this is a FOREVER commitment! You are having your insides rearranged and there are consequences (all manageable) that come with that decision. You MUST make lifelong change and follow the rules with your food, nutrition, and exercize. Slipping away from healthy behaviors can have dire consequences -- so keep your head in the game and rely on others. 

I greatly appreciate all of your input!  Great advice.  Thank you so much!

I also (as a WLS loser in training) appreciated all the great advise.   I Love that everyone on here is so forward and honest about the good and the bad in their experiences.  It really helps.  Thanks everyone!