What do all you HOTTIES do when
I'll tell you how I deal with it - I enjoy the HELL out of it! I'm married and not "shopping" at all, but damn it - after spending my entire adult life as either the "invisible woman", or the "beached whale" in the eyes of most men I encountered, I LOVE the attention! Inside my head, I'm thinking "eat your heart out, honey!!!"
And then I serve myself a big 'ol piece of humble pie and tuck my tail for thinking anything so arrogant.
But I do love it, I won't lie! Even in Alabama, at a bar in Troy after the wedding party broke up, there was a man there (who was probably a FOOT shorter than me, not that it mattered) - he'd strike up a conversation every time I went up to the bar, and at one point he even took my hand and would NOT let go! If it weren't for my MN sisters heading outside for a brief reprieve from the SMOKE in there, I believe he'd STILL be hanging on to it! Annoying, but flattering as well.
Always look for the positive!!
And then I serve myself a big 'ol piece of humble pie and tuck my tail for thinking anything so arrogant.
But I do love it, I won't lie! Even in Alabama, at a bar in Troy after the wedding party broke up, there was a man there (who was probably a FOOT shorter than me, not that it mattered) - he'd strike up a conversation every time I went up to the bar, and at one point he even took my hand and would NOT let go! If it weren't for my MN sisters heading outside for a brief reprieve from the SMOKE in there, I believe he'd STILL be hanging on to it! Annoying, but flattering as well.
Always look for the positive!!
Imperfect does not = unsuccessful