The WLS Clinic called - About my Psych results

Ok, I am perplexed, confused and pissed. The PA calls from FSH to let me know they have my psych eval, and there is an issue. Because I CALLED OUT that I know my weight gain and issue is due to emotional eating while meeting with the evaluator, I now have a non specific eating DISORDER and usually FSH WLS requires 5 years of being cured of that. (not her words exactly, but whatever) So she tells me she knows I'm going to Waters Edge to get help and as soon as the therapist "clears" me for surgery, I'm good to go. So because I <br />
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1. Recognize WHAT my issue is<br />
2. Was honest with the evaulator<br />
3. Spoke up and said I needed help<br />
4. Am seeking help<br />
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I'm a lesser canidate for surgery and / or have to wait? ARE YOU F-ING KIDDING ME ? <br />
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How many WLS patients have this issue, or WORSE and they don't have to wait for a therapist to clear them!<br />
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How many post op people wish they would have sought therapy for whatever their eating issue(s) are PRE OP, but didn't. Plus maybe haven't even to this day?<br />
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It just doesn't sit well with me. I see my therapist a****ers Edge on Monday and will inquire what and how long she thinks for me to be OK for surgery. Obviously I'm not going to be FIXED overnight, and I don't want this to delay my surgery. I might never get my emotional eating under control, EVER. <br />
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UGH - MAD!!!!!

Hi Kristy~
This really sucks!   I hope it's resolved soon and doesn't screw up surgery for you.

I've had counseling 'way before I ever considered surgery--and it didn't help me a lot. I've had counseling since surgery and it has helped me a little--but I have to make a conscious effort to apply those things recommended. I guess I'm one of those folks who need a lightening bolt or smack on the head to really change things.  As you say-- might not get emotional eating under control--ever---but you WILL have times where you will succeed!

(((HUGS)))
**SUE**

Thank you, Sue.

I was surprised too because the psychologist that evaluated my MMPI said the only thing that showed up was that I tend to be very shy, which is true. Nothing else stood out.

Gee--you never struck me as shy!

Of course--the medium...different from in person!

I'm looking forward to meeting you in person--some day!

((HUGS))
**SUE**

BTW--sent you a PM.

This is the pits!! I hope you and your therapist a****ers Edge can clear you for surgery as quickly as possible!!

(((((HUGS)))))   connie d

That really does stink! Hang in there girl! I don't have an answer for you either, but I feel your frustration.
Becky

I totally understand your frustration.  I have a feeling I was too honest at my psych eval.!   I think everyone eats emotionally, that's how we get to this point.  I just called the Emily Program to set up an appt. to deal with my food issues (hopefully) before surgery.  I have a feeling I am going to get that call very soon.  I'm going through Fairview also. 
Good Luck!
Angela

Kristy~(((((((((((((Big HUGS))))))))))))))))))))  I am so sorry and I agree it does feel like you are being punished for being honest and acknowledging your issues.  We have discussed some of this in the past so you know where I am coming from but please if you need to talk feel free to email at either address.  I have no problems making time for you even at work!  I will be going up to my parents this weekend but check my email often while I am there so give me a shout if you need to talk!  Love & Hugs! Nicole

Oh Kristy!! :(  Hang in there!  I know that this wrinkle certainly is not what you wanted to hear.  I hope that your appointment a****er's Edge can help you figure out a time frame for things.  I think that many of us out here have worked through emotional eating.  It seems they are blowing things out of proportion.

What clinic are you going through can you look at another one like PNC maybe you could get a second opinion. I'm sorry you have to go through this.(((((HUGS)))))