Sincere apologies ...

...to everyone whom I'd honestly, unintentionally offended  through written words which can be obviously misconstrued and misunderstood.    
    Not one person here has deliberately caused neither my stress nor hurt feelings.  Everyone of us has our own 'issues', and when I'd mentioned stress, was just my 'cry for support.'  This will be the subject with my psychologist Monday.  I do have the privilege to continue checking in here, though will limit my replies, or if so, will add to each that ''any sincere unintentional offense was not the goal,"  so to erradicate any potential misunderstanding.  I do plan on pursuing my own transportation to activities and support functions, and hopefully people will eventually get to know me as a real person, and my vocal tone and inflection will reveal who I really am.  We're all adults, and should anyone feel they need need validation, a licensed psychologist who specializes in WLS is positively advantageous.  Every individual deserves genuine positive support, which I believe is the purpose of the forums.  Should anyone actually be offended by anybody's post, please take an honest look at yourself before consternation.  Looking forward to getting to know the real person each of you are.  With utmost humility and sincerity, Patti