I'm SO SICK of hearing that I'm losing too much weight!

I know others on the boards have commented on this before.  But now its my turn to vent a bit.

As you can see by my most recent avatar picture, I'm still continuing to lose weight.  And now I have people telling me, on a daily basis, that I'm losing too much weight.  Or that I can't lose any more weight.  Or that I'm too skinny.  I hardly think that weighing 146 lbs qualifies me as skinny. 

I am following the rules.  I'm eating slowly and healthy.  Getting all my vitamins, protein, and water in.  I FEEL GREAT!   Why criticize me for following the plan and being on target??

I know, its ignorance and jealousy.  Because for once I'm on the other end of the scale.  But I'm so sick of hearing this.  I'm ready to choke someone!

Done venting.........  :)
Just needed to get that off my chest

kel

Well, numbers don't always match our image, I guess.  You look great, and if you and your Dr. feel you can lose more, then go for it!  Why quit if you are healthy!  I know, people don't believe me when I tell them I have 21 more pounds to lose to goal, and it's even worse when I tell them that goal is on the high end of my "healthy weight," and that I intend to go lower.  They say that they can't see where I've got it to lose from.  I guess it's a compliment, and they are just concerned about our overall health, but yeah, it can be frustrating.  You are doing a fantastic job!  Keep it up.

KA,

You look wonderful....I just saw you.....They just aren't used to seeing the new you.........

You have followed the plan pretty much to the tee.......You have been VERY successful....And I'm proud of you.......The body will know when to quit.......Keep up the good work.....

Love, Kelly

You look great! I think you're right, probably just jealousy and ignorance. I'm sure that doesn't help in the moment, and isn't an excuse- espeically if any of the comments are coming from loved ones or close friends. Vent away, and brush them off!

Congrats on your loss - you look fabulous! 

You look good, you feel good - and you are the only one walking in your shoes. 

 

Just look at them and say "do you tell someone they are gaining too much weight too?"  That'll shut them up....

I get the 'gaunt' comments too!!!  I just smile and take my boney/skeletal body elsewhere!!!!  They just are used to you being "not so skinny" and can't get used to it.  Anyone who met you know would probably not think the same as those who knew you pre-WLS!!!

Continue YOUR journey and forget about 'em......You are doing great.

Some people i tell ya!!  When will people learn.  I think you look fricken wonderful and your doing an amazing job keep it up!!!!  Ignore all the IDIOTS out there.  Gosh knows you'll be ignorig alot of people then LOL.....
Hugs Marsha

Kelly...it really gets old doesn't it!!

It used to get me mad.  Now I just say "my doctor and I are  managing my weight loss. He is happy about where I am."
They don't say much after that.

I think YOU look wonderful!!

I sure hope to see you again soon. It has been much to long!!

Hugs, connie d

I like Connie's suggestion. Just return their comment with a "I'm taking care of myself and there's no need to worry" type response.

People are so used to seeing you all plumped up that they have no idea of what "normal" looks like for you.  So even a "normal" weight to them can seem quite gaunt. Come here and vent, because we know you're doing great - let all their comments roll off your back.  People are stupidiotic and really just don't know when to keep their mouths shut!

Sorry you're dealing with that crap - just know we all love you and think you look fabulous!

BTW - I miss you - it's been too long since I've seen you - this summer is going way too fast!!!

OOH!!!   OOH!!!   I KNOW - when someone makes such a comment, take them by the hand, walk over to a stranger who has never known you or seen you obese.  Say to them "Excuse me, but we're having a debate here, and would like your opinion.  Do YOU think I look too skinny?"

Git 'r done.