How do YOU know??

Sandra N.
on 7/10/08 8:12 am - MN
THanks Tracy!  Hmmmm, what's right for me...

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



teerex39
on 7/10/08 5:15 am - Eagan, MN
Sandi I have to ditto what Linda had to say.  I tried 125-129 it was too low and made we weak.  You also have to listen to your body.  It will tell you when to stop.  It might be a foregion language but it will tell ya.  Any who your are just a doll. T-rex
Sandra N.
on 7/10/08 8:14 am - MN
Yeah, that Linda be smart!  I guess I need to throw the numbers outta my head and start listening, eh? Easier said then done....especially when regain freaks ya out!  And excuse me who's the doll???

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



Marylou P.
on 7/10/08 6:21 am - Rush City, MN
Sandie,  I have the exact same issue although different if THAT makes any sense.  I feel like my body is telling me that I am done, but my mind is screaming HELL NO!  I have been at the exact same weight for a year.  My original goal was 150, but that seems like it will never happen.  So I thought, maybe that is unrealistic and I better change it to 160 or 165, but my butt stays at 190!  YUCK!   My mind/heart can not accept that number and I know it is just a number and I feel so much better and blah blah blah.  I am in tears feeling like a failure and no matter how many people tell me that I am not a failure, I feel it in my heart!  I didnt go through all this to to end it all here.  But what is REALISTIC for ME?  I dont know?    My husband says that I am perfect right where I am and that I dont need to lose any more, but I think he is just sabotaging me for fear that I am going to get too much attention from other men???  He's sweet but it makes me wonder???  Sorry for the emotional outburst here, Im a basketcase today.
Sandra N.
on 7/10/08 8:16 am - MN
((((((HUGS))))))......I hate numbers!!!!  I understand that part!  Grrrrr!  HUGS

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



(deactivated member)
on 7/10/08 6:38 am - Saint Paul, MN
I'm glad you posted about this.  I didn't set a goal with my surgeon's office.   So I set my own goal at 150.  Well, now 6 months out and 5 pounds from goal, I'm finding that I'm going to need adjust my goal.  I'm eating healthy.  I'm exercising.  I don't care whether or not I lose anymore.  And I'm a little sick of hearing how "skinny" I am.  Hello?????  I'm not skinny.  I'm normal.  My doctor assured me that once my body is done losing I will stop losing. I say lets just throw the scales away. Kelly
Sandra N.
on 7/10/08 8:19 am - MN
Throw the scale away......I don't weigh often but I am  of the whole regain thing!!!  What a ride, eh? THanks for your input!  VERY good points in there! HUGS

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



(deactivated member)
on 7/10/08 1:14 pm - Blaine, MN
I don't know yet but good question.  I know I'm starting with my first goal of 139 - 10 pounds to go.  But I really think I'd ultimately like to be 125.  So we'll just start with 139 and go from there. And while I'm at it, I must say you looked stunning the last time I saw you.  You were just glowing! (((Hugs))) Michelle
Sandra N.
on 7/10/08 9:42 pm - MN
Thank you Sweetheart!  10 to go?!?!?  WooooHOOOOOOOOO! I am so proud of you!  Keep it up! HUGS

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



Jennifer G.
on 7/11/08 12:46 am - Minnetonka, MN
Try to look past the number and see how beautiful you are.

Jennifer

 

    
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