OT, OT, OT,OT

This board has exhausted me. I have to go through so many OT messages to get to good solid WLS stuff. I was avoiding a last hurrah message because those seem to just get posted so people can gain attention and then come back and say "hey, guess I am going to stay". To be honest, not everyone needs to know everything certain people, they don't say OT, so now I have to skip every comment they make 'cuz evidentially, weddings are OT. There are more OT's that don't say OT that I spend most of my time on this board filtering. Then we have the people that just spew vial information at people by shoving their beliefs at them. The criticizing, the "I would post but it would just start gossip"; then don't even comment. I figure I would go out ******g everyone off and then I won't go back to read them. This is the only message board I belong to, and it just hasn't turned out to be my thing. Spew back at me if you must, fair is fair, but I am not going to comment back, so if you want the last word, you have got it. I have taken the low road on this, but I thought it might be better than the typical "farewell cruel world" post.

I am frustrated by a lot of stuff on OH also.  I understand your frustration level. I am willing to give you my email if you need someone to just vent to. I am a good reader/listner.  Hope things get better soon

Wow....It saddens me that you want to leave us.........I'm so sorry your leaving......I wish you weren't........I really believe things are going to be better on here.........The more I get to know people at coffee's & get togethers the more I understand them and what their saying....... Would you consider coming to a coffee get together? There is so much good info at them, we all share what has worked for us and our slip up's........etc. Please feel free to PM me, support is soooo important with WLS. Today I learned so much at my nurse appt. I posted what I found out in case someone else was going through the same problems...... If I don't hear from you, I wish you the best. Take care, and you didn't **** me off at all.......... ((((HUGS))))  Kelly

I can understand your frustration in some of the points in your post.  I'm sorry it has come down to you leaving though.  :( I hate that people feel this is the only option anymore. (((Hugs))) and hope you reconsider... Michelle

Bye

I find this interesting that the person doesn't but their name down.  So my response is have a nice life and its to bad that you feel this way~!

Her name was down when she posted it but she has since deactivated her account I guess.  It was Lotsaleg.  Can't remember what her real name was but that was her profile name.

Her name was Kathy.  She went to MG coffee's and I'm guessing those she mentioned in her final email from that coffee group were a little surprised!!!!  I also went through the posts for the past day or two and I don't know what the problem is.  If you read the headings, it is REALLY EASY to pick up on which are non-WLS posts and which are. Who knows.....

She never showed her face either.  That concerned a lot of people.  So she can come back later and we'll never know?  Awful way to leave the board.  I guess she wasn't feeling Kelly's peace post.   Funny how people ***** about "spewing vial by forcing their beliefs" but do the same thing ~~ difference -- mine wasn't aimed at anyone and wasn't meant to be hurtful -- just informative in my way.  I'm a sh** or get off the pot type of person who doesn't foo foo around.  Some can take it, some can't.   Those who couldn't take it in the beginning have gotten over it since then so what is it to her?  But her time was apparently more valuable than ours and soooo sorry we all wasted hers. So in the end did she hurt Diane B, Kelly, me, Linda, Lucy or Randall.  I'm guessing nope -- I was thinking "don't let the cyber door hit you in the ass on your way out!!!" -- her post WAS plain vicious and definitely uncalled for. We may have our differences but I still hold out hope that we are in this together --