Anyone else single notice increase in attention?
I have noticed more positive attention from the opposite sex as well, and I enjoy the dickens out of it!!! Doors, smiles, "hello"'s, I kid you not - I even got a "how YOU doin'?" a few weeks ago!!! I had to work to not laugh out loud at that guy!!!
What I really get a HUGE kick out of are the younger guys being friendlier - I mean, like in their TWENTIES young guys! But I can't lie, I LOVE IT!!!

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Yep sure beats acting like we don't hear them when we use to hear the hurtful comments when we were larger. Ya I had one of my sons friends being real freindly with me while I was down there... sorry,..... but..... ewwww. I am not into that much younger... now say somebody in their late 30's... now that would be cool.
Oh yeeeaaaaaaah!, From about seven months out I began getting the positive attention. Now, being thisclose to two years out, and being free from 'emotional bondage' I'm more outgoing, more assertive, and loving the attention! Two weeks ago there was a substitute driver when I caught the early morning bus to work. We really hit it off, and had a fun and interesting conversation the entire twenty minutes. AND, he's very easy on the eye, and I DID give him my phone number when he asked for it at my stop. There wasn't anybody else on the bus at that point, and as I began going down the walking trail to work, I noticed he had stayed stopped there, rather than immediately taking off. He called me that afternoon, and we've had some very nice chats. However, he lives in St. Francis! Ugh! He's so full of seeingly sincere compliments, and very fun chatting with him. He's aware of my having MS and not driving, and is eager to come all the way down to Hopkins to get together. Having so recently ended a relationship, I'm really taking it slow to avoid the 'rebound' effect. AND, I've recently updated pics on my PlentyOfFish profile, and am suddenly getting messages--having weeded out the yucks, there is one closer in proximity that I seriously will meet, and gratefully he's patient and understanding of my taking my time. Yikes, it IS spring......feel those hormones!?!!! My revised mantra: "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass by, it's about learning to dance in the rain!" Enjoy the progressive ride! Hugs galore, Patti
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