Comments that hurt.......LONG

Connie D.
on 5/8/08 10:13 am

Thank You Sandie!!!! I am so glad you have taken the time to post this. No one should feel bad about where they are on this journey. You rock!!! Love and hugs....connie d

Sandra N.
on 5/8/08 10:17 am - MN

RNY on 12/12/06

EXACTLY!! Why should anyone feel bad that they used the tool correctly and lost the weight!?!?! HELLLLOOOO!! Wasn't that what WLS is all about!?! I think these jealous peeps need to follow the rules, do the hard work themselves and GET THERE themself!!! Loves and Hugs

~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
Click on link to see my journey!!!
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with! Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

Connie D.
on 5/8/08 10:56 am

RNY on 08/29/07

Sandie....I sent you a PM. Hugs sweetheart....connie d

PamelaK
on 5/8/08 2:05 pm - Osceola, WI

RNY on 06/18/07

You know what, if this is because I made a comment to someone on here a few months ago, because she herself said she needed to lighten up on herself and then was devasted at a 2 lbs gain. I apologize. I did apologize to her and backed up my comment with her posts of how unhappy her doctor was and how she had seen pictures of herself and said she needed to be done losing, but then kept losing. I was truly concerned for her. Our weight fluctuates every day and I didn't think 2 lbs was enough to get devastated about. I have looked up to all on here that have done such a fabulous job and I do hope I can get there as well someday. Is that really jealousy? Hmmmm....Guess I didn't think so, I thought of it more like a goal for me. If I've offended others, I apologize. I really don't need this sh** though. Time for me to take my leave. You've all been fabulous and I know you will all do fabulous! Take care all!

Pam

Carol N.
on 5/8/08 8:57 pm - Sartell, MN

RNY on 07/24/07

I'm with you Pam, I think everyone needs to stop wearing their feelings on thier shoulder and get out there and enjoy the new life we have been given! Support and friendship is one thing, but when it comes to a public lashing, hell I can get that anywhere.... None of us is above anyone else, we all come from the same place...... thanks CAROLN

  'Live Simply. Love Generously. Care Deeply. Speak Kindly. Leave the rest to God!
'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.'

Sandra N.
on 5/8/08 10:10 pm - MN

RNY on 12/12/06

Carol; I am sorry that you feel that way! First off, "wearing their feelings on their shoulders"...Is that what you think of me? I come on here and support but when I need support I say so too. I think you have done the same. Second, public lashing? I did not mention names, TO NO ONE! Third, YES we have all come from the same place! WE have ALL had WLS......what we have done with our tools is up to us and if we are put down for our success or following the rules, is that right????? Just wanted to clear things up as I am not sure why this post has upset you. Hugs

~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
Click on link to see my journey!!!
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url
"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with! Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

Lindaanne
on 5/8/08 9:44 pm - SSP, MN

RNY on 07/25/06

Yes that comment was made to me... I dont think you are the one to judge if I was overreacting... I was afraid. You made light of it.... yes you apologized at the time but its obvious you still dont get it.

Maybe one day if you get there youll understand... maybe

thats sad

Start Weight - 263
Current Weight 135 and making it work for ME !

Diane B.
on 5/8/08 9:58 pm - Fridley, MN

RNY on 02/14/07

Way to stand up for yourself!!!!! Yes I envy you.. but I am happy for you. I find you, Sandie, Barb, Kelly an inspiration for me to keep going. YOU LOOK FABULOUS!!!!! Enjoy your success and hold your head up with lots of pride!!!!! You deserve it.

I am not short... I am fun sized!!

Lindaanne
on 5/8/08 10:00 pm - SSP, MN

RNY on 07/25/06

Thank you.... I love helping people !! If I can inspire someone to go forward great !! I got there yes..but Im still afraid of gaining too !! Hugs

Start Weight - 263
Current Weight 135 and making it work for ME !

Diane B.
on 5/8/08 10:05 pm - Fridley, MN

RNY on 02/14/07

I think all of us are afraid of the weight gain. Goes back to our heavy days. Plus like I said before.... we should be supportive, NOT make others feel bad, or feel like we are being attacked for our success!!!

I am not short... I am fun sized!!

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