What is wrong with me???

Judi H.
on 5/4/08 7:49 pm - Hudson, WI
I had my lap band done 2 1/2 years ago and I can not loose weight!  I started out at 338, I am 280 and have been here so long.  I had the band adjusted and I just got back and they took out 2.  So I am so upset.  I really thought this was going to help me and I am still huge! What is wrong with me! Judi
 My Lap Band Surgery was Thanksgiving week 2005.  
Debra B.
on 5/4/08 9:32 pm - MN
Hi Judi: Why did they take OUT 2 cc with no recent weight loss? This means filling the band more, not less. Also.....post this on the lap band board as well, because our MN folks are very lovable and supportive but most are RNYers.

Debbie



PamelaK
on 5/4/08 9:46 pm - Osceola, WI
Hi Judi- Just wanted to welcome you to the MN Board.  I guess I would be asking the same question as to why they would reduce the restriction rather than increase it.  What is your doc saying?  Are you following all the rules?  I don't know a lot about the Lap Band, but if you are following all the rules don't beat yourself up.  Keep following the rules and call the surgeon and ask if he has any suggestions.
Hugs And Kisses Pam   






debim3
on 5/4/08 10:07 pm - Roberts, WI
I agree with Pam.  If you are doing what you are supposed to be doing, don't beat yourself up.  You can only do so much.  But I would call the doc and find out what is going on. Posting on the lap band board would be a good way to get advice from those in your same situation on this subject.  But keep posting here too.  Most of us are RNYer's, but we are very helpful and supportive. By the way, I see we are practically neighbors!!  Maybe sometime you'd want to get together and walk down by the river or something? Debi
HW 265 / SW 226.5 / CW 130.5 / GW 135
        
Sandra N.
on 5/4/08 10:26 pm - MN

HI!  Welcome to the board!!  Glad to see you!  I agree with Pam and Debi!  There is nothing wrong with you hon!  I'd be asking WHY they took out also.  Hang in there Hon!   Hugs!

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NicoleLynn
on 5/5/08 12:56 am - Minneapolis, MN

Welcome to the MN Board!  I agree with everyone else in that there is nothing wrong with you.  I would suggest talking with your doc about all of this and seeing if they have any suggestions for changes you could make or have them check to see if there is something medically going on that is keeping you from losing the weight (like thyroid issues or medication side effects).  ~Nicole

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Jean B.
on 5/5/08 2:52 am - St. Paul, MN
Hi Judi,
I agree with the others - there's nothing wrong with you! But we do need a little more info.....

Are you eating protein first and then veggies?
No drinking with meals or for 30-45 minutes after?
Limiting snacks....and then making good choices?
Getting your water in during the day?
Exercising?
Those are the basics anyway.
And, what's going on with your fill amount? Were you having problems and they took some out?

The good news is you lost weight and seem to have maintained that loss. I know you want to get further though. If you ever want to talk, let me know. I know I would not have been as successful without the support groups that I attend. It helps to talk to others who know what you're going through!
Jean B.

267/237/171/149      1st nurse's visit/surgery/current/goal
down 66 lbs. since surgery; 96 lbs. total

Judi H.
on 5/5/08 5:40 am - Hudson, WI
Well, I was told that I was too tight.  So they had to remove 2.  I thought I was wide open again.  they said the pouch has not grown too much, and that I must have adjusted to the band and am eating things that will slip through.  I was down to 262, I am up again to almost 300 again.  I am very discouraged.  They tell me AGAIN it is all up to me.  The bond is doing it's job. I have never had any problems, except if I eat certain foods, or eat too fast.  Portion size is fine, same as before almost.   I am told it is all my fault again.  Just like before.  I guess the fat girl is back.  I just wanted some encouragement as It has been 1 1/2 years and I am still struggling.  They told me that I am rare, but this kind of thing can happen. I have to go back to the basic diet and start over again. Judi
 My Lap Band Surgery was Thanksgiving week 2005.  
Jean B.
on 5/5/08 6:37 am - St. Paul, MN
Hmmmm, Judi.
That sounds kinda weird. I mean, you do have to work with the band, but it's got to be filled to right amount for you and do it's part too. Did they say why they thought it was too tight?
If the band is doing it's job, you should get full on 1 to 1-1/2 cups of food made up mostly of protein and veggies and maybe a little carb, and that should keep you full for a good 4 hours or so.
That's what my doc uses to figure out how much saline to add.
Is that about how you're eating?
Jean B.

267/237/171/149      1st nurse's visit/surgery/current/goal
down 66 lbs. since surgery; 96 lbs. total

Connie D.
on 5/5/08 7:05 am
Hello Judi and welcome to the MN board.  Everyone else has pretty much said it all. I just want to let you know we are here when you need us and will try to help you anyway we can. I really don't know much about lapband....I too would suggest the lapband board. However you are always welcome here!! Good luck and I hope you find the answers you are looking for. Hugs, connie d
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