Having a hard day - need hugs!

This must be feel sorry for Laura day.  I wanted to leave work early to see my daughter play in an adapted softball game in Andover.  Everyone left the office for meetings - I am the only one here.  So, I can't leave!  It is my 19th Anniversary.  I put a sf caramel treat and a mushy card in my husband's briefcase last night for him to see this morning at work.  He said nothing.  Finally when I asked him if he saw it he said, "yeah, that was nice".  Not a Happy Anniversary or anything.  He stopped taking his Selexa (anti-depressant) for mood swings several months ago & is mad all the time.  Last night told me if he knew before we married what he knows now he would nnever have married me.  He starts back on his meds as quick as I can pick them up at Target.  I have the world's worst cold, feel like crud, and can't go home.  Got a call from the PCP's office.  Had a physical last week.  2 - almost 3 yrs out from surgery - my diabetes is back - A1C was 10.1.  My cholesterol is high & my iron is very low.  I need to go back on diabetes meds.  My DH was crabbing about that too.  I was hoping to do something fun for our Anniversary tonight - an appetizer at Friday's or Happy Hour or something.  Guess not!  I am sad! Ineed hugs!  Thanks for listening - I needed to vent.......... Laura

I'm so sorry you're having a nasty day! (((((Hugs))))).

I would take what DH is saying with a grain of salt given that he's not on his meds.

Hope tomorrow is a better day for you!

Laura, (((((HUGS)))))   Geez, I feel for you........There's nothing worse than feeling un-appreciated or un-loved. I hope your hubby gets back on his meds and realizes what he has said and done. So sorry to hear about your test results, Dang I didn't realize diabetes could come back. Hope that gets under control again. Hope things go better for you tonight at home. Take care, Kelly

((((((((((Laura)))))))))  I am sorry you are having such an awful day and that your husband is being mean.  Hopefully the Celexa will get in his system quickly and that will change.  Is there any way that you can do something special for yourself tonight even if your DH doesn't want to do anything?  Even if it is taking a nice hot bubble bath and enjoying a good book or going for a walk after work tonight do something for you, because you deserve it!  I am sad to hear that things aren't going so well healthwise either.  Do you know if you have changed what you are eating that could have caused the diabetes to return and your cholesterol to be high?  Also have you been taking your iron supplements and just need more than what you are getting?   I do hope you are able to get everything under control and back to a healthier you.  Feel free to come here and vent anytime you need to, that is what we are here for.  I hope you have a better night and that things turn around for you. Love & Hugs, Nicole

Cyber hugs don't feel quite as good - but please know I'm sending one your way! 

You certainly do need hugs. You have most definately had a crappy day. We have all had them, but I guess today is Crappy Day for Laura Day. The good news??? It is almost over and you should announce that tomorrow is Super Day for Laura Day. And once your hubby is back on the meds, you will get to come up with fabulous ways he can make it up to you. Go to bed early tonight and wake up with fresh new air in your lungs and skip in your step, after all, it will be Super Day for laura Day

Awww Big Hugs!

Happy Anniversary!  19 years is great!  Hubby may have blown it a bit, but if he needs his meds. then by all means pick them up and I pray they help!  Sometimes people say things when they are in a mood that aren't actually how they truely feel- kind of a shield- but the sting hurts deeply- I know!

Best Wishes for a better evening and a new bright tomorrow!

Sorry for your rotten day.  Sending hugs your way.

((((Laura)))) Prayers going up to comfort you thru the rough times! Loving Hugs!

I'm sorry that your day was like that. But you know what? I want to wish you a happy anniversary! You are a golden mom after all and very likely a golden wife. Any wife that can be patient and understanding enough to deal with a husband that acts that way is an extremely strong woman. So here you go -- virtual flowers: