OT: It's been a rough week!

As someone who lost two dogs in the past month, I can trully empathize. The loss of a pet is so unlike other hurts. We don't really get funerals or memorial for them. And to not even know for sure what happened, that is the worst. With my Angel, I at least was there. With Louie running away, and with your Ella, we will never know if they were found by some loving family, or if the unthinkable happened. I am so proud of you that you came here to talk and get support. When Angel died, it would have been so easy to go lay in my bed, eat junk food, and shut out the world, but I didn't, and it sounds like you avoided that route as well. Look how far you have come! This tragedy hurts, but look how you took care of yourself. You and your loved ones are in my prayers. I am looking forward to the day I get to see my "kids" cuz I know they are waiting for me.

I'm so sorry to hear about your two dogs....WOW two right in a row must be devastating.  Good for you to get the support you need - and thank you so much for helping me through this too.

My wonderful friend Tracy, I can add no words of wisdom, they have already been said, just remember to take care of you, because no one else will do it for you!! Any time you wanna make a Starbuck's run, I'll drive!!! That was the best coffee run I have ever made!! Big hugs, you know where to find me! Love ya...

My dear Betsy - how sweet of you - it'd be one heck of a long drive for you to take me to Starbucks!  But it would be worth it to me!  I did love our run to Starbucks - both getting our FIXES!!!  Next time, I'm definitely driving my own car - I don't care about gas prices - I like the freedom - but on the other hand I did get quality time with you! Thanks for the support honey - This too shall pass...Love ya!

Tracy as everyone has said already, I am so sorry you are dealing with this sadness!  You are such a caring person I wish that your pain will ease quickly.  There is a reason for everything and some day I hope the reason brings you some peace.

I hope you have memories of your relationship wth Shanon that you will be able to look back on and smile.  Not knowing the details perhaps a friendship will remain.  But even if not, You need to do what is right for YOU!

If You have a picture of Ella- I do graphic art and I would love to make a small something for you.  You can post it here or pm me and I will give you my e-mail.

Big Hugs Sweetie!

CheriLynn - you're so sweet.  Thank you for your kind supportive and encouraging words.  And I would LOVE to have a little memorial piece for Ella.  Thank you so much for offering.  I have a pic on my home computer, but my internet isn't working.  I'll try to remember to put it on a jump drive and send from work yet this week. BTW - How are things going?  Any better?

Tracy, I too have been thinking about you the last few days. I know how hard the loss of a pet is.  I also know how difficult it can be to end a relationship.  I haven't known you long but I have learned that you are a very strong woman, you will overcome the hurts and be stronger for it. God does not give us more than we can handle. Hang in there ((((HUGS))))

Oh Sweetie, I wish I was there to give you a big, big hug.  I know how hard it is to lose a friend, be in feathered, furry or human.  It just goes to show how deep your love is when it hurts so much.   I am sorry to hear it didn't work out with Shannon.  Time will heal those wounds, too, and I just know that you will find the right person for you.   Hope to see you on Saturday - I have a present for Alfie (and a hug for you).

Hey there! Sorry for everything you are dealing with.  I am thinking about you and praying for you.  You are a very special person!!  I am very proud of you for not continuing a relationship that didn't feel right.  That is a true sign that you are growing.   The world needs those freckles girl!! 

OMG Sabrinna - YOU ARE IN ONDERLAND!!!  Did I miss the post!  So sorry if i did.  Congratulations girl - I know you've been worried about getting there - but YOU DID IT!!!  I'm so incredibly proud of you girl! BTW - thanks for the kind words!  I'm already starting to feel relief from the BF thing - I just pray that He can get the help he needs.  Take care girilie and again - congrats!