On Friday, I did something I've NEVER done before...

I asked a guy out!  He said no.    I asked him for a ride on his Harley. But he told me the only reason he said no, was that he's never given anyone a ride on his motorcycle before and he was afraid I'd get hurt.  He kept telling me that he would do it, if he felt like he was a better driver.  So...my friend thinks that means he wanted to say and maybe wants me to ask him something he can say yes to.  I'm wondering if he kept explaining because he wanted me to know the answer is NO. What do you think????

Does he realize you were asking him out? Asking for a ride on his Harley and a date might be two very different things for a guy. But I think he meant nothing bad by it... if people don't feel safe driving a Harley... they will take it serious and not let anyone ride. WAY TO GO BY THE WAY!! You have guts!

I failed to mention, I did ask for a date.  So, yes, he knew I was asking for a date. Thanks!

LOL. Ok! :-) Well, either way... WAY TO GO!

I would say give it a little time, see how he interacts with you after this, then decide. If he's still friendly and such.. try again with something else. Go for it.

Way to step out of your comfort zone!  That is not easy to do!  I would wait and see if things change between you.  It is possible he could be shy and needs a little bit to work up the courage to say yes.  I think that you are one brave woman! Love & Hugs, Nicole

I feel so silly... I feel like it's definitely spring!!  I'm in such a GOOD mood and you know what?  I don't care if I get shot down again, when the opportune time comes, I'm asking him out and this time I will make sure it's something he WILL want to do.  If he says no, well then, it was good practice.  And if he says yes, well...YAY!

That is a great way to look at the situation! 

Men are so silly!  You should just tell him if he ever wants to go out and do something else to let you know.  That way you are putting it on him and he knows he won't be rejected if he does ask.

I think he's interested...he keeps coming up to me and asking me the most bizarre, off-the-wall questions, and will just stare at me and smile this silly looking grin.  Yesterday I asked him why he was looking at me like that and he just smiled bigger and walked away!  What a dork!  I feel like I'm in high school again!! But I am having fun.  It's nice to have the attention....