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Thank you sweet sue!  I love you too!  I really do covet your prayers.  Im getting so discouraged.

Hang in there sweetie and DON'T lower your standards!  A guy who truely loves you and sees how wonderful you really are (like we all do) will wait for you and treat you like a queen the way you deserve!  I know you want to share your life with someone but don't settle for crumbs when the whole can be yours!  Think of your precious daughter and show her how to value ones self by not settling, how women should be treated and cherished!  As another said...."want a good person hang where good people are!"  WELL SAID!! Hugs and I STILL LOVE YOU!

You are so worth it hun...... It takes time but you will find someone who loves you for you and not just whats in the jeans.   You are very beautiful.  Hang in there hun and talk to us when ever you need too........

Thank you Marsha!

It seems if you stop looking, that's when they find YOU. My husband is a pain in the arse most of the time, but when I really need him to pull through, he does so with flying colors. I had to wait 27 years and kiss a lot of frogs before I found him. Hang in there, but let your prince charming come find you, then you will know he is worth it. And for the guy who only wants a one night stand, here's hoping he gets a major case of cooties from the next one night stand he has!

Missy, I am sorry you are going through a rough patch right now in regards to finding a good decent man.  But, as previously stated your prince charming your Mr. Right or whatever you want to call it..... will find you when you least expect it and when you have stopped looking for him.   God has is owning timing for these moments in our lives, so please try not to be upset and I know that can be easily said than done.  I had many nights that I would cry myself to sleep wondering why I couldn't find a good man?  I have been in the same place as you currently are, just know that you are worth waiting for and some day your going to make a man very happy and he will thank God for sending you to him.  In the meantime, I'm sending up prayers for you that God will send a good man into your life.  And, I STILL LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hugs, Erika

HIJACK TO ERIKA~ Holy Hannah, Woman!!   You're more gorgeous every time you post! You're melting away!!  WTG!!  Way to work your tool! (((HUGS)) **SUE**

Of course you are lovable!!!  and sweet and kind and beautiful!  And worth all the admiration that the right guy is going to give you!!! He will come.  Just because the others are hanging around right now, don't let that sour you to the good...  if you walk around frowning instead of that gorgeous grin I know you have it might throw folks off.  I know when I"m upset, I'm not very approachable  lol  ok that's putting it mildly  :) Decide what things you like to do and then find clubs or volunteer there.  At least that way you will meet folks that have the same interests who might have friends... who have friends  :) Good luck to you and CONGRATS!!! for sticking to you guns :) *huggles* Lori

If you are meeting men who don't want a woman unless she sleeps around, you certainly shouldn't feel bad or berate yourself for kicking his arse to the curb, where it belongs!  You deserve, and should settle for no less than, a decent, caring, sincere, kind man.  And they're out there, just not when & where you're looking.   I agree with others - you'll meet the one when you least expect it.  In the meantime, remember the definition of insanity - I don't recall the quote exactly... but it's something like 'doing the same thing but expecting different results'.  Change up your routine.  Go different places, maybe do lunch with some co-workers you never have lunch with, just change things up!  It may not bring Prince Charming right to your door, but you might have a bunch of fun anyway!

Cheer up!! there are good men out there.  I was by myself for awhile, because I knew my selfworth was so much more.   My hubby found my in 2000, Did you understand what I just said?? He found me!!! I had a bad streak looking and trying to snag the wrong ones!!  2000 He found me and 2002 he married me and 2003 he gave me a perfect little gift(my daughter).   Everyone goes through this moment, even men.    It will happen when you least expect it.  You just make sure you concentrate on yourself and work out all the little kinks and hang ups you might have or you want to change.  It might be traveling more or furthering education anything!!  That way when he finds you.  You'll be ready!!  I don't know you.  You don't know me.  However,  I can relate!  Know that your selfworth is so much more then just ya know!!.  Besides you might have done that and felt likeand in the mist of it you could have fallen to   So, you are saving yourself the disappointment.   Stay encourage, keep your head up and stay DIVAFIED!!!.  Smooches!!