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only want the bad girls??  Im so tired of being rejected.  Its like no guy wants to date a girl that wont sleep around!  I know I shouldnt be so upset since these guys arent worth it anyways but Im just depressed!!  Ugh!!  I dont know what else to say, I just had to say something.  I feel like Im going to burst into tears!  Im loveable arent I??  Sorry!

Hi sweetie....I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Men are a pain in the a$$ most of the time!! They only want bad girls for fun times.....those aren't the ones they usually end up taking home to mom. Hang in there and don't compromise your values.  You are adorable and such a little swwetheart. Your time will come. I know it hurts now but just hang in there...it will work out when the time is right. Hugs, connie d

Men suck! You deverse better than those creeps. There are a few good ones out there. Sorry your feeling so sad.

Please remember that there are men *****ad these posts, try not to turn it into men bashing central.  I agree that some men are not worth the time of day, but not all.  But the same could be said about people in general.  Focus on making others see your value, because you totally are loveable and TOTALLY worth it. Paul

Thanks for speaking up Paul!!!  I AGREE TOTALLY with you!

Im sorry! I wasnt bashing all men, I know alot of great guys, from church and my friends husbands.  I was just talking about probably one in general.  Im sorry if I offended you.  I didnt mean to.

Awwww....Don't give up...there are LOTS of good men out there!  When I was single before meeting my husband (after going through a very bad marriage), I decided I wasn't going to have that "all men are pigs" attitude because if you have that attitude that is just what you will find.  After all, there are just as many witchy women out there and sometimes lets be honest, a witchy woman can make a good man go bad and vice versa a jerky man can make a sweet woman go witchy.  Go figure! lol!  Anyway, I am now married to the most wonderful, caring, considerate and loving man I've ever known.  (eHarmony rocks!)  So dust yourself off and just think positive and decide you will find a good man and not settle for any less.  He is out there, you just gotta nab him! (((Hugs)))) Michelle

OH Hun- There are definately good men out there.  Not sure where you are looking and meeting but it really is true that to meet good people look in good places.  Let friends and family know you are looking- they may know a great guy who is looking too.  But never give up what you believe in- Your right man will be happy you didn't and there will be no regrets.

You see thats my problem.  I only really meet guys at church.  I dont go out to bars and I dont party.  I go to the gym and work but thats it.  I guess I need to get out more but I just dont know where to go.  Thanks!

I STILL LOVE YOU, Missy!     I think you're adorable! Don't lower your standards for some guy who wants just wants a roll in the hay.  You are worth sooo much more!! The right guy will show up at the  right time.   Our timing isn't always God's timing. I'll be praying that the RIGHT guy will sweep you off your little tootsies! (((HUGS))) and **SUE**