I NEED ADVICE!!!

Darla S.
on 3/11/08 5:14 am - Maple Grove, MN

Okay, my friends, help me figure THIS one out!!!   I have always been your stereotypical horse-crazy girl at heart!  Went riding every chance I could growing up, and I must say, I was a pretty good rider for not having any formal training.   Just kind of a natural rider.  Only I came to realize about 17 years ago that ME getting on a horse's back could be interpreted as animal cruelty.   So, I haven't ridden in THAT LONG.   My daughter is also a stereotypical horse-crazy teen, and she's taking a Horse Science class this quarter.  Their class is going RIDING tomorrow for a few hours.  She just CALLED ME to say her teacher would welcome a few chaperones, and did I want to go riding with them??? DOES A BEAR DEFECATE IN THE WOODS??? I'm so TORN right now!!!  I mean I'm still in the 240's, but the permission slip I signed for her last week indicated up to 250 was fine!  Still, I have this fear - of a scene like one from America's Funniest (aka MOST HUMILIATING) Home Videos, where the horse just FOLDS under the weight of a big woman?  I WOULD DIE!!!  But to have an opportunity to go riding???  That's something you don't get every day!!!  I SO WANT TO GO!!! But I need your HONESTY - right here, right now.  Do you think I should?  Or should I put it this way - WOULD YOU GO FOR IT???


  Imperfect does not = unsuccessful

Darla S.
on 3/11/08 6:25 am - Maple Grove, MN
OMG - Missy, you just hit the nail on the head.  I have done some of the most memorable things in my LIFE (cliff jumping in the BWCA, playing a saxophone solo at a Vikings playoff halftime show, holding a freakin' tarantula last weekend!!!) for that very reason - because I would totally kick myself in the ASS if I passed up the opportunity!  Why didn't I see THIS opportunity like that??? THANK YOU for the  moment!!!


  Imperfect does not = unsuccessful

Cindy B.
on 3/11/08 5:22 am - Rosemount , MN
Darla, Yes. . . GO! Think about men who weight 250 pounds. . . They wouldn't be worrying about the horse. I think the universe is conspiring to bring you well-deserved JOY. Your post was so cool. GO for it. This is my humble, but bold, opinion. Yes, yes, yes!!!!! Cindy  
Missy W.
on 3/11/08 5:57 am - Cloquet, MN
HIJACK!! (thats the first time I have done that! lol)   Im so glad everything went well for you!  Im glad you home safe and on the mend!
Darla S.
on 3/11/08 6:33 am - Maple Grove, MN
Darla S.
on 3/11/08 6:38 am - Maple Grove, MN
Cindy, THANK YOU for the perspective!!  I needed that - and might I add, YAY YOU for getting back on the boards so quickly after your WLS!!!  WTG, GIRL!


  Imperfect does not = unsuccessful

(deactivated member)
on 3/11/08 5:26 am - Clear Lake, MN
Darla, GO, GO, GO, GO................. Don't worry, there won't be any problems. Go have some fun. Kelly
kelli S.
on 3/11/08 5:33 am - minnetonka, MN
for sure go! you will have so much fun!
Sandra N.
on 3/11/08 5:37 am - MN
Do it or you could miss one of those awesome WOW's we so long to have!!!

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