My turn to ask for advice...

Ok, little update. Aaron had his sleep study last night, they told him the best thing for him would be to lose weight. He actually told them, with me sitting there silent, that he is seriously considering WLS, hard as it was, I kept my mouth shut, and let them finish, kissed him goodbye, and went home. I didnt sleep last night, too much going on in my head!! When I picked him up this morning, he thanked me for not "digging deeper" about his comment, when , I took the opportunity to put to use what all of you wonderful people said. I explained, that though it was the best choice for me, he will need to make his own choice, and I will be here to support him in whatever ways possible. he asked, "even though I wasnt the best support for you in the beginning of your ride?" Yup, its what I do. I told him I will help him, no matter what, and he needs to tell me if I am going over board, i also sent him the link to this, and he just emailed me, said that I have the most amazing support system, and he sure feels like an ass for not being 100% from the word go. Its just fear of the unknown is what I told him, and now, we both know a lot more, and it will be easier to go forward.

So, on that note, thank you, all of you, from Aaron and I , its one thing to try to explain coffee to him, but for him to see the reactions here, just warm my heart, and reinforce just how lucky I am, to have wls, and most of all, all of you!!!