My wife doesn't love cripples
Sorry you are going through a hard time. But remember that God doesn't just throw things at us -- EVERYTHING happens for a reason!!! This is a path that God wants you to go down. Whether it is to make you a stronger person, or find a person or the path that is in your future, we can only wait and see. I was totally heartbroken when my first marriage broke up after 5 years. We had known each other for 12 years so I lost a long time friend and husband and I was very sad my daughters had to lose their home and family unit. But three years later I married the love of my life and thank God for helping me find the true path of my soul, which made me a better parent in the long run. The healthy, loving marriage I have is a true inspiration to my children -- not the case with the first marriage. We don't always like the answers we are given, but in time your true path will come to light.
XXOO to help you get through the sadness....
Fitness is not about age or a size -- it's really about an attitude and life style!!!
Life is not measured by the number of breathes we take, but by the moments that take our breathe away~~
Have you considered seeking some counseling for this situation? I know the folks on this site are very loving and caring, but it sounds like you could use a bit more help than this board can give. The doctors should have the name of a social worker and they tend to be fantastic sources of info for various groups and/or counselors. You really did get dumped on and Ihope you get some help getting through this.
All the time I have read your posts Lara, I have seen a beautiful, strong wonderful Lady. I see nothing of a cripple in you!! The only crippled part I can see, is that someone you love can't or doesn't love you enough to work with your medical issues. I know you are hurting, so I am sending you a huge set of Nemi hugs , kisses and silly smiles.
Karen and the goofy one
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session at a time is all I can do, multitasking is a fine art that I am still trying to master. 
session at a time is all I can do, multitasking is a fine art that I am still trying to master. 
(((Lara))))
I am so sorry to hear of your pain. Remember the good times that you and Franceska had together. Grow off of what you learned in your relationship. You are a wonderful person with a big heart and you have come so far. It will take time, but you will heal and you will find that love again someday.
Us oldies should get together sometime. Not many oldies post on the boards nor do they attend group.
Hugs to you...
Cathy
Love is like a puzzle. When you are in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together.
- Author Unknown
I am so sorry to hear of your pain. Remember the good times that you and Franceska had together. Grow off of what you learned in your relationship. You are a wonderful person with a big heart and you have come so far. It will take time, but you will heal and you will find that love again someday.
Us oldies should get together sometime. Not many oldies post on the boards nor do they attend group.
Hugs to you...
Cathy
Love is like a puzzle. When you are in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together.
- Author Unknown
I guess I have been wrapped up too tight in my own world to give you a call and see how you are doing! I have not been a very good friend and for that, I am truly sorry!
I am so sorry that this has happened. I know that this was a very special relationship for the both of you. I am sad that it had to end.
As for being a "cripple..." I THINK NOT!
We all have our short-comings. Yours are just easier to see. In that regard we are all "cripples" but I would disagree.
Hugs to you and I love you very much,
freddybear
Lara, I am so sorry. Did you notice your post drug all the oldies out of the woods? I so wish things would have turned out differently. I remember your weightloss and the joy over running. Then the problems started and I guess in more ways than one. I hope you will find your way back to happiness and hope again.
((((Lara))))
You know I love you to pieces. Yep - this post will bring the oldies out of the woodwork. I will be there for you always and forever - I promise.
It was so good to see you on Saturday and give you hugs and love. I'm glad Dante was there for you Saturday night. And you always have Mr. Butter!! :)
As a fellow cripple, know I always have your back (literally and figuratively). I'm sorry that F turned out to be a turd, but know that you are worthy of love and will be loved again!
Love,
Megan
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