spouses/family after surgery

lisajoy
on 2/25/08 4:46 am - Lakeville, MN
My hubby is figuring out when he should take off work for me after my surgery.  My surgery will be on a Tuesday afternoon.  When will I need him the most?  Suggestions?  Lisa Joy


Start Weight: 256
Today: 171
Down: 85
Still want to lose: 31

BMI 30.4


Renee_J
on 2/25/08 4:53 am - Shakopee, MN
Best wishes on your surgery!  I needed help the first 2-3 days after being home.  I had surgery on a Monday and went home on a Wednesday afternoon.  I actually felt pretty good - just tired, and it was nice to have someone get my drinks and soups measured and ready for me. 
teerex39
on 2/25/08 5:25 am - Eagan, MN
Lisa, Just one day after you come home.  This is just to make sure you can get around and fix things for yourself while you are off.  But thats just me Troy
Lisa B.
on 2/25/08 6:10 am - Independence, KS
mine was home with me for the first week. after that I was off the narcotics and was fine fending for myself. but deffinatly the first couple of days.

Hugs ~ Lisa    
Well behaved women rarely make history!
305/296/147/150  159 pounds down 3 lbs below goal!
Highest weight/day of surgery/current weight/goal weight 


Colleen W.
on 2/25/08 6:17 am - Burnsville, MN

Maybe Thursday when you get home and for sure on Friday if you have kidlets at home unless he/she will be at daycare.  Plus, I'm off on Friday's so I'd be more than willing to come and help you on my day off! :)  I was home Thursday afternoon all alone and my mom was home with me on Friday (her day off) and all weekend.  I was pretty self sufficeint. 

lisajoy
on 2/25/08 7:57 am - Lakeville, MN
Awww....Colleen how sweet can you be?  Thanks...I'll remember that offer.  :O)  Plues I could just sit back and hear your online dating stories.  :O)    Did you want your mom with you at the hosptital? 


Start Weight: 256
Today: 171
Down: 85
Still want to lose: 31

BMI 30.4


Colleen W.
on 2/25/08 10:08 am - Burnsville, MN
I was glad she was there on the day of surgery.  She sat with me in my room while I dozed on and off (morphine pump was working).  My mom and dad were both at the hospital with me on the day of surgery.  Totally your choice on who you want there with you.  I was thankful for the visitors I had on Tuesday afternoon and of course on Wednesday!  Visitors made my day!! Colleen
Sandra N.
on 2/25/08 6:27 am - MN
Hi Hon!  My DH was off for 1 1/2 weeks....but I have 3 small kiddos so I was SOOO thankful! I guess it all depends on how you tolerate things, if you have any dependants, and little things like that.  Plan I'd say for at least 2-4 days after surgery just to be safe!  HUGS

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
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"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



lisajoy
on 2/25/08 7:59 am - Lakeville, MN
I have four kids who can fnd for themselves and me.  Two dogs that are a pain in the butt!  So......kids won't be an issure.  Angela showed me the picture she has of your girls.....OMGosh how cute can kids get.  Dar-ling!   Lisa


Start Weight: 256
Today: 171
Down: 85
Still want to lose: 31

BMI 30.4


Sandra N.
on 2/25/08 9:57 am - MN
Ahhhh, thanks!  They are darlings but they can be handfuls!!!  How exciting that you day is getting this close!!!  Yippppeeeeeeeeeeee!!

 ~Sandie~ -147!!WLS:12-12-06:Preop 268,Ht.5'4",BMI 44.9
  Click on link to see my journey!!! 
http://www.onetruemedia.com/my_shared?z=2bfaca5561a1d558fceb
87&utm_source=otm&utm_medium=text_url

"Do unto others as you'd have done to you"~ The Golden Rule to Live by!
You are what you EAT and WHO you hang out with!  Choices=Outcome~ what's YOUR choice??
I'm not perfect but I am going to die trying!!!

 
  



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