OT - broke up with chef Rob

A girlfriend of mine knew I was on the fence and told me she'd seen him recently on some dating sites again.  That clinched it for me. I called him tonight and he actually got a little pissy with me!  So, I left it with this....  Well, Rob, I was beginning to fall in love with you and maybe, when you grow up and are ready for an adult relationship I might give you a second chance.  He was still talking when I hung up. Really feel awful, but on a brighter note, I finally agreed to a date with my friend Lamar.  Not gonna let the grass grow under these feet! My girlfriend sent me this text tonight and its my new mantra!    "never make a man your priority when he makes you an option"

There is no reason to feel awful..Lift your head up high with that beautiful smile and just move forward. Why not try a date with Lamar. Good Luck!!!

Aw Im really proud of you... you have grown soooooooooooooooooo much!!! Its gonna hurt when you get those alone times, and the temptation to call him will be hard.. just know its supposed to be wonderful and fullfilling in all aspects! Hugs!

Good riddance! Keep busy. Hold your head up. You had those nagging feelings for a reason. TRUST them. Cindy

Hurts to love, doesn't it?  See--good thing you didn't involve your son! Don't second guess your gut feelings!  You're doing fine!  There are other fish in the sea (as if you haven't heard that one before...) That mantra is sooo right on! ((HUG)) **SUE**

I was thinking that you needed to comfront him on were this was heading. As the old saying goes ***T or get off the pot! You don't need someone wasting your time. Good for you! Hang in there if it was meant to be he'll come back begging you for a second chance.

Here's hoping that you find the RIGHT fish!!!.....and don't settle!!!!!

I am SOOOOOOOO proud of you for standing up for YOU!  That is hard to do!  I'm glad you realize you deserve to be treated better than that.  Way to Go girl! 

Those are tough decisions indeed - but GOOD for you!!! You deserve a relationship that treats you with respect and openly and honestly returns the love you give and desire. There is a man out there for you that is willing and able to do this and will love you for who you are....never settle for less! I called off an engagement with a man that I realized wasn't willing or able to treat me with the respect and love I deserved. Tough, tough decision - but I finally decided that I'd prefer to spend the rest of my life alone than spend a lifetime in a marriage that was less than wonderful. Fortunately I met and married my best friend and he always treats me with respect and love - totally worth the wait.

Tina...good for you!!  You deserve much better then what he had to offer. I am proud of you!! Hugs, connie d