Update on my granson Nic

Connie D.
on 2/19/08 3:21 am
My heart is breaking...I know this is what needs to be done but it is so hard. Here is a post that my daughter, Jamie wrote on Nic's Caring Bridge site.......at least if Nic can have Chemo in MN they will be staying with me. It is hard to let him go so far away. love to you all......connie d

Hello everyone! Well, it's official. We are about to enter the cancer-world again. As you can probably guess, we aren't exactly looking forward to it. One good thing is that we are taking charge, we aren't letting cancer come in and take over. Our new adventure will start in New York City (YIKES) on March 17. We will be meeting with Dr Kushner, a wonderful doc we have been assured, for a consult. His specialty is neuroblastoma and I feel we will be in good hands with him and Sloan-Kettering (MSKCC--Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center).

On Tues, March 18, Nic will be having a CT scan done. and then the injection for the MIBG scan. We will have a good part of both of these afternoons to do something fun. I think our friends, the Horn family, will be out there at that time so we will probably get ideas of what to do (as if there is a lack of stuff to do in NYC) and where to go.

Wednesday, March 19, Nic will have his MIBG scan and then a bone marrow aspirate. Remember, the scan is non-evasive but the aspirate is considered minor surgery. He will be put under and samples of his bone marrow will be taken out of his hip bones. I believe at MSKCC they take from the back as well as the front of the bones. Something I'm afraid Nic will be less than thrilled about, but he isn't one to complain (about medical stuff anyway, not true for some of the things I cook and Grace's love of shrieking). He'll think of a way to put a positive spin on it.

That's it. Seems pretty tame considering some of the scan/test schedules we've endured in the past. Nic is fine with it, all of the scans are ones he has had countless times before so he isn't worried.

For those of you who have expressed concern, I am one to ALWAYS "go with my gut feelings" and this NY treatment feels right. Nic, Travis and I are all convinced it is the right thing to do. Nic is comfortable talking about it and has read about it and asks questions when he has a concern. He is ready to go forward.

There will be several rounds of high dose chemo that he will have to go through before the 3F8 treatment begins. I have done some checking and if all goes well, Nic will be able to have that done in Mpls at our "home away from home" hospital. Just knowing the "hard" part will be spent at a place where Nic is comfortable, knows the staff and surroundings, and has such special bonds with some of them will make all the difference for him (and us).

As the date gets closer and I have more info on our "adventure" I will let you know.

Thanks for being there for us!!!! Love, Jamie

PS Feel free to ask me any questions that you have [email protected]

lilcrazyrn
on 2/19/08 3:23 am - Wyoming, MN
I am so sorry the poor little guy has to go through this.  It must be heart-wrenching.  We are saying prayers for him.



1st goal-  Get back to my pre-pregnancy weight!







 

Connie D.
on 2/19/08 3:27 am
Thank you Naomi. We appreciate the prayers and good thoughts. This is his third time with this horrible decease.....it doesn't get easier with time. Hugs, connie d
(deactivated member)
on 2/19/08 3:30 am
It is so hard to watch children go though this. They obviously have there hope high because they call it their adventure. Such a strong family you have. Prayers and good wishes being sent!
Connie D.
on 2/19/08 3:44 am
Thank you Cathy. I do have a wonderful and strong family. Thanks for the nice reply and good wishes. Hugs, connie d
Dedicated
on 2/19/08 3:32 am - Eleva, WI
Its hard, but stay positive.   I'm sending you a PM.

Ride the Ride!!!   - Tina      
"never make a man your priority when he makes you an option"

 
        
Connie D.
on 2/19/08 3:46 am, edited 2/19/08 3:48 am
Thank you Tina for the wonderful and thoughtful PM.It means so much! Hugs, connie d
Marsha F.
on 2/19/08 3:44 am
My sweet sweet Connie I am so sorry....you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and if there is anything I can do please let me know... The caring bridge is so awesome my cousins little girl is on there too.  Take care honey and please pm me if yo need anything...... LOTSA HUGS Marsha
Connie D.
on 2/19/08 3:48 am
Thank you Marsha...then you understand the pain....I will keep your cousins little one in my prayers too. hugs, connie d
mnmomma2004
on 2/19/08 4:18 am - Reno, NV
Hi Connie My prayers go out to you, your grandson and your family. It is so hard when the little ones are hurting. Know that God is watching over him and your family to give you all the strength to deal with this. Healing hugs, Peggy
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