oh Connie D
I'm a little out of the loop on the RNY fiasco. But regardless we are all here for support and you have mine regardless of the surgery. It's more about the weight loss support and no one should judged. I find that sometimes what we feel comes across wrong in the written word. Alot of reading between the lines and then our message comes something else. That's what is nice about the get togethers. Best of luck on getting approved for surgery!