OT- more boy stuff....the drama continues

So I spend sunday with Rob.  We talked about a lot of things that were kind of bugging me.....glad we did.  They were little to most people, but important to me. I felt so much better after we talked...he said he was glad I was honest with him and talked about it all with him. And yes, I told him about my friend.  I can't be with that guy....he's wayyy too needy.  I want someone who wants to be with me, not NEEDS to be with me. He was a little bothered (Rob), but I told him that if this friend couldn't accept my decision then I won't be able to be his friend anymore.  He said, are you sure you're wanting to give up a sure thing?  I said yes.  and he just smiled and gave me a big hug.  He had just told me that he's not ready to say all that to me yet (the I Love You's) and thats fine...its only been two months. So....I'm delaying the inevitable and really need to talk to my friend but am dreading it.

How cool is that?!    And yup--it's only been 2 months... Good luck!   ((HUG)) **SUE**

I know! 

All you can do is be honest.  Come what may, you won't have any regrets if you're honest.  Go for being gentle, tactful, forceful, whatever you need to be to get your point across, but always in the end, honest.  My 2 cents.

Well, I think I lost that friend.  Which is too bad.  He really was a great friend.   But, he's actually mad at me now!  How 'bout that one!  He can be pissy if that helps him.  He could have told me sooner or kept his mouth shut.  Which is basically what I told him....whatever helps him get thru it I guess. 

I would always be leary of anyone that confesses thier love for you when your with someone else....especially if they are recently single. And I LOVE the fact that the chef isn't all gung ho into saying he loves you...a man that shows some self control is a keeper in my book.

Me too.  He's not recently single, but he knew where I was at with Rob. As far as Rob goes....well, he's worth the wait!  ( at least for a while! ) By the way....Sherman the puppy is definitely all LAB!  Comes a running and only 4 weeks old! Rob told me yesterday...."You know I want you to have Sherman.  If you want him."  I told him lets see where things are at in 4 more weeks....he is going to sell the puppy's, so I told him not to save him if someone wants him.  It was one of those things we talked about....I'm not sure if I could have Sherm around for 10 yrs and not Rob.  He thought that was sweet.  so we'll see.

Honesty is the best policy. Hang in there Chica. If you really want to move forward you have to leave the past behind. Good Luck!

Hi Tina....glad you were honest with Rob. He sounds like a really decent guy. I like that he is taking things slow...that is a good sign. As for your friend....it is sad that he is being so nasty....I guess that is how he just handles his emotions. NOT a good sign!! Have a good day sweetie...hugs, connie d

I'm trying to adopt his way of thinking....not planning, just doing.  Its hard!!!! Although he shocked me yesterday when he mentioned possible potential plans for both valentines day and my b-day the day after!!!!!!!!