OT...Major stressor going on right now...

Debi, this stuff goes on everywhere - I have seen it several times, and it IS very difficult for women to stand up to it, to report it, and to follow through with whatever comes as a result of reporting it.  Fact is, other than the owner talking to this creep and setting him straight, nothing might happen.  Now.  But guys like this don't just pick one woman - they are vultures, and he WILL offend again.  And when he does, YOUR report will be on file, and for all you know, there may have been others before you that have complained as well.  Eventually it WILL bite him in the ass, and you must be PROUD for the teethmarks (toothmarks? ) YOU left for him.   And PAT YOURSELF ON THE BACK for not self-medicating with evil FOOD when you were feeling stressed!  Because now you have TWO things to be proud of - reporting a creep, and NOT letting food be your crutch!  You are a strong woman!!! WTG!

Thank you Darla.  It was hard to do it, but now that my part is over I feel so much better and I am now feeling proud of myself.  My counselor will be proud too.  I'm so thankful for this board and for everyone on it.  Without it, I know I would have eaten.  Doesn't that sound like a junkie??  But food was my drug of choice, and my best friend for so many years. You all are so awesome and I am so happy to have found you all!

Oh Debi!! I am soooo proud of you for taking the stand you did!  The bottom-feeding @#*hole  deserves more than a remedial class--he deserve a boot in the you-know-what!! You are awesome!!!   Truly!! Congrats on standing up to the moron, and not medicating yourself with food.  YOU ROCK!!! (((HUG))) **SUE**

Thank you Sue...BTW, I'm looking forward to meeting you in Duluth...