Im frustrated...
Ok... the other night when I had my "whatever" it was my DH gets so scared that he starts getting very gruff with me. :(
So on top of what Im going through hes yelling " whats whats wrong what do I do!!" and Im scared to death and cant answer. He always wants to pack me up and jet me to the emergency room or call an ambulance and I tend to be more of the buck up gal and ride it out. We are having this ongoing "dissucsion" of whos right.. it never comes across as caring it comes across as anger. When Im almost fainting and feeling as I was the last thing I need is to take over and direct whats happening..is it too much to just want so have someone just handle the situation? He keeps saying how scared he is.. but hello so am I !! I dont know what to do anymore than he does! Im just so frustrated... he is going to my Dr tomorrow to ask them what he should do. Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Im so sad and frustrated.... anyone have any thoughts?? PS I dont usually air stuff like this cos Im more private but I need some input. Hugs friends...
Start Weight - 263
Current Weight 135 and making it work for ME !
Let him go! Maybe Doc will tell him that when this is all going on that it would be best for you to stay calm and give you assurance to help calm you down
. If he is anything like my DH, Doc's word is as good as gold(even if it's the exact thing you've said
). Hugs dear! And I'm glad you are going in!!!!
~Sandie~ 
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He will goto the appointment and learn a few things from the DR. 
Relax, take some deep breaths, say a prayer, we will too! Hugs and smoochers!
Lisa Joy
Start Weight: 256
Today: 171
Down: 85
Still want to lose: 31
BMI 30.4
I can certainly understand your frustration. My DH is good with handling stressful situations ...cops do that everyday they go to work. BUT for whatever reason, when it comes to me or our son, he sometimes loses his perspective on how to take charge. I am sure he'll feel better after getting the chance to talk to the doctor himself and get his questions answered too. IT's his silly way of showing how he cares about you!
I hope you get the answers you need to feel 100%. Good luck and let us know how it all goes. 
