Well, It's done.

My thoughts are with you. Try to keep your chin up. No matter if it's planned or not, it's never an easy process. Hugs, Connie

My new goal: NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN NIN! Love ya!

Terri, I am so sorry that you are going through this. Just know we are all here for you when you need us. Hugs, Cheryl

Terri- I am sorry about your marriage trouble. I myself was seperated from my husband in September, filed in December and the Big D was final right after Easter. I know what you are going through and know what you mean about having the fear of being alone. If you would like to talk I would be more than happy to share more info with you and will share the process of what I went through/am going through. There is ife after divorce though. HONESTY this is the happiest I have ever been in my life. Please write back or feel free to give me a call. I will sen you a seperate e-mail with my cell number. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone that doesn't know you really good to just vent. I know for me I didn't want to discuss it with close friends or family because I was afraid they might repeat things, mess up my case or judge him as a bad person. Plus I found it helpful to talk to others going through a divorce to see there are other people in the same boat or to get suggestions from them. I have a few pointers of good advise if you want to hear it. We were very civil at first....we agreed no attorneys. Then he went against his work and got on and it got ugly. In the long run, the attorney was the best thing for me to do. Cost me a chunk of money, but n the end saved me money you know. Plus she dealt with all the additional BS that I wouldn't handel. Take care hun! Would love to chat. -Lauri B

Terri, Please know that you are in my thoughts. Venting is what we are here for. Soooo vent away! God Bless---Toni