Well, It's done.
Matt and I had a talk tonight for the first time since he moved out, and the mutual agreement is that we cannot save this marriage. Too much has happened and there is no going back. I am very sad, and this is very hard for both of us. We went and had dinner tonight and are on good terms for the most part. This has been coming for a while now, and we are so very different than when we met. If someone would have told me that this could happen to anyone because of WLS, I would have said never in million years to us. Yet, here we are talking about divorce. He said you never know and I could meet my Mr. Right. I told him I always thought it was him.
I think I am more afraid of being lonely than anything else. I want him to be happy and I know he wants that for me. I feel like I am in mourning for all of the things we had and all of the things we dreamed of. I saw myself an old lady with him and we used to joke about what it would be like for us and how we would kill each other off in the end(morbid I know). Now all I can do is try to put things back together for myself and figure out where to go next. It just seems so unfair and tragic. People used to tell us how great we were together and even our therapist thought we were the cutest couple ever. Now we are just not.
Well, that is my rambling for tonight. Sorry for the dump fest. Thanks for listening.
Terri
Terri I know no words can help heal the pain you are feeling right now but I just wanted to give you some support! I am really sorry that any marriage has to end in divorce. Stay as strong as you can, but make sure you cry when you need to. Crying is very theraputic and I know I always feel better after a good cry when I need it. Take care and I am sure you have plenty of shoulders to lean and cry on around here.
Jennifer
I feel so bad for you right now, i know you are hurting and there is nothing i can do to make you feel better. My heart really goes out to you, if there is anything i can do or if you need to talk feel free to email me anytime. We are all here for you, good times or bad, just always remember that.
Hugs
Linda
Terri,
I'm so sorry to hear of your news but I hope that you know you are truly never alone.
I've been single all my life so I can tell you how lonely one gets and it's never lonely with the people here on oh.com. Trust that we'll be here for you and I'm open to be a friend any time you need someone to talk to.
I'm a great listener so shoot me an email any time ok?
God bless hon...and I'll always have a ear for you and a shoulder to lean on...(i'm short so it works well)
hugs ....
Stacey
Oh Terri....I am so sorry to hear of your news. I wish there were something I could do or say to make you feel better....there just doesn't seem to be any perfect words. Just know that we are ALL here for you, you know that. My heart goes out to you! Big hugs to you, Theresa P.S. Yes, please don't hesitate to email or call if you'd like to talk...
Terri,
Girl, you are very lucky that you both are able to sit down and respect eachother through this. Troy was the man I thought I would grow old with too but after WLS he just couldn't support me as an individual with her own dreams, goals and aspirations. I still cry myself to sleep missing him so much and the love we once shared. It is a very lonely place to be but it does get better each day I promise. I hope that you both can continue to be good friends and respect on another in the future. I am here for you honey. We all need eachother so much. Lots of love,
Susan
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