So upset.. off topic

Ok so as I posted on the morning tuesday post we (meaning myself my hubsand an his friend ) were all going to be going to ionia to pick up my friend so that she could come down an spend sometime with me an ring in the new year.  Well this is how today was to go. Wake hubby an his friend up around 8 have them out the door around 9 so they can take the boxes to friends who are moving. Then be back home at 11 to leave to go get my friend.
Well got them up an out the door on time an then the fun starts. first off friend calls to ask if she could come eat dinner today at my house cause they are moving an she will not have time to make a meal. Fine no problem I normally cook more then is needed so its all good. Then about an hour before hubby an his friend are to be home to be leaving I get the friend they took the boxes call me an tell me that rather then coming home like planned they are taking her an her kitty to the vet at 11 an the apt should be over about 1130 which puts them home at 12 to leave for my friends house which takes an hour to get there. so now my whole day has been pushed back an the really fun part is that I was NEVER asked.. I mean is it so hard to even just ask

Sounds like you are so easy going that folks just assume you will be OK with any changes.  I tend to be that way too, then every once in a while I have a little meltdown and remind everyone, including me, that I am human.   Just be careful when and where that meltdown happens.