been awhile update/ surgery in am

Been awhile so here's the quick update got lay-ed off in June , took care of a friend who had surgery dealing with unemployment paper work , getting insurance and bank stuff worked out calling around and scaling back on cable, phone, computer etc... getting cost down on any thing I can  trying to work with health insurance folk to get surgery covered...omg there a hand full. Have had my sister in law in hosp x2 she has she has a terminal illness .she's dealing with it well by brother is a bit of a mess but hang-en in there OK. Have had my Dad in hosp x2 just came home Fri .starting rehab today (7/14) on home oxygen not a happy camper but after this week end he's starting to deal better. We're getting thing sorted out and tomorrow I'm going in for a panniculectomy and tummy tuck.I have managed to do a few fun thing in between all the other stuff  Out to a play, couple of concerts, movies, visiting friends,up to a friends cabin , fishing some hiking, a party or two (my nephew just got his PHD very proud of him) I still try to exercise at least two hour a every day. I try to go to support functions once a week or more . So life has been full. Nervous about surgery in Morning but looking forward to been done and recovering. strange thing to say but even though I'll be recovering from surgery I looking forward to the free time. pretty much got other folks lined up to look after all the others and some one look after me.  Have lurked a little but just haven't had much time to read or comment on the board so maybe after surgery I'll at least be able to lurk a little more. Hope every one is doing well