On October 17, 2007 at 5:26 AM Pacific Time, tammijoe wrote:
They didn't have any statistics to back this up but they said that people that have wls are dying earlier from suicide and heart failure. The heart failure I can see from years of being MO....but suicide?
I've heard the suicide statistic before - it's understandable to me. As a morbidly obese person we deal with self esteem issues, depression and use food as a crutch for emotional problems. The surgery might fix the weight issues, but it certainly doesn't take away the mental issues. I've heard that statistics for WLS suicides are fairly equal to morbidly obese suicides (can't remember where I read that or how reliable it was, but it seems to make sense).
And don't forget the stats of higher divorce rates and transfer addictions. I think the media, unfortunately, report things like this as if it were the fault of the surgery. It's not the surgery's fault, the surgery didn't cause the problems - the problems were there all along, just that they were covered up with food and unhealthy habits. What they should be focusing on is that morbiidly obese people need to be taught to deal with the mental aspects of the surgery and their emotional relationship with food in the same way we were taught to sip our water, walk, walk, walk, puree your food, chew well, eat protein and all the other "diet" stuff.
At my psych eval last week my doctor recommend reading Dr. Phil's weight loss book (yeah, I know... not a big Dr. Phil fan, UGH!) ... but as I'm reading it, I see that his focus is not on the next magic diet, but on developing a healthy relationship with food and understanding our emotional needs that don't need to be filled with food.
:::: stepping off soap box now ::::
Pam