FINAL ANSWER: TUMMY TUCK IS A GO
Without huge explanations although I feel you deserve them, I have chosen to proceed 100 percent with the tummy tuck.
A phone call took place today with my Mom and things were taken care of and managed and handled in the most warm, gentle and loving ways.
All I really want to add is a GENEROUSLY HUGE thank you to all who have posted and showed much care and concern.
I managed to speak my heart and soul to my Mom and get things back the way they should be, and will remain.
16 days and counting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stacey
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