I need to vent!!
Things haven't been so great, and yesterday was even worse. I was a hostess for a meeting, and after we had refreshments, the program was presented.
Still having some promblems with socializing with this group, I decided to start putting some stuff away, easing the load of work to be done after the meeting. I then was by the regent and told that I was rude and to get myself out of the kitchen.
I have always been taught to respect my elders. I didn't want to start anything and I went but was I , putting it lightly. This was one of several people that I had problems with a few years ago regarding another mess that I don't even want to get into here.
Then when it came time for the election of officers, the slate was announced, including my name for the office of registrar. There was hesitation for it to be accepted, and then for it to be seconded. While it was voted on and approved (with the installation of officers being in June), it makes me sway even more to resign when the June meeting comes up.
You see, I know I no longer can emotional eat. I probably could have just grabbed my stuff and left, but didn't want to leave the other hostesses with my share of the work of cleaning up.
I have been working on a resignation letter for at least a week before this happened. Until certain members are no longer a part of the chapter, I don't know if I can be an active member of this group. I have a lot of things that I need to sort out, and my mental health is at stake. It's only certain people in this group that are driving me
Hi Rhonda,
Sounds like a lot of petty crap that I don't know if I'd want to be involved in anyway. I don't know what your group is exactly, but it must be important to you to stay with people that are so mean. Is it possible to talk to the person(s) causing the problems and see what's their issue? Maybe it can be resolved civily. If not, I'm afraid I wouldn't put myself thru the turmoil, especially if I was feeling vunerable. But that's just me. Pray for them, maybe that's what they need! Good luck to you! Theresa