Creepy wls moment!

I had my tax appointment this week. I have known my accountant for 5 years and he has never so much as looked my way twice. He checked me out the whole time I was there. I mean talking to the chest and everything! I am not sure I am ready for this kind of thing. It freaked me out! I still have 80 lbs to go and I am getting attention from men that I don't want. Has anyone else had this experience? In one way I am happy I look better, but in another I am so used to hiding in the background I feel like a chicken at a hawk convention! I am not a prude and love to look good for my husband, bought some "hottie" outfits for Florida and all to get his attention, but I am scared of this kind of thing. I am used to being the fat chick in the corner that opens her own doors and pushes her own car to the side of the road when it breaks down. Men are much more helpful to smaller women. Any helpful advice on this one people? Wendy

I used to have this mailman that would always stop and talk to my husband and I (I was a big girl then, but no where near my top weight). We started noticing that every time he talked to me he was staring at my chest. One day he was talking to my boobs so I just casually stooped down and looked right into his eyes. Yes he was embarrassed, but so was I every time he "talked down" to me. He did rather sheepishly apologize to me. God bless you, Annette

My advice, get use to it Wendy ! In all seriousness, I know what you mean, I had a really hard time with it. Actually I went back to my therapist to deal with all my self-image issues. But you have worked hard to get where you are, just take it as an unspoken compliment! Keep up the great work ! ~Van

Yep, get used to it. It doesn't bother me at all, i'm very straight and speak my mind. I work in a gas station, guys are 90% of my customers. I do get suprised when the hot guys flirt with me, but i like it. But when they get rude, like looking where they shouldn't be, i embarass the hell out of them and laugh. But usually i just take it as a compliment and maybe even flirt back. Hugs Linda

I get attention that I don't want from men all the time. The other day I was in the grocirie store picking up a few things, you know, the essentials - Fresh Fava beans Jasmine rice Prosciutto, approx. 8 ounces, thinly sliced Medallions of veal Porcini mushrooms 1/2 pint of heavy whipping cream 1 Cub Scout uniform, size 42 long 5-6 bottles good Chardonnay 1 large bottle Astro-glide And this one guy couldn't keep his eyes off me. JK kp @ goal

Sounds good what were you making? How did you handle the man? I would have stared back, and maybe thrown a or two.

So did you tell John to keep his eyes where they belong?

Laughed my a*& off at that. Did you have sparkling mineral water and a cher tape as well? Kim