Some bad news mixed with some good
On mother's day the grandchildren we have guardianship of, their mother passed away in the early hours. She had been in a hospice house since just the previous Tues. We all knew she was very sick but all thought she had a little more time. We were taking the kids to see her on mothers day in the evening so the kids didn't get to see her. She was only 35 but had a hard life very dependent on alcohol. So much so that it finally took her life. The kids, for right now are doing ok. The relationship with their mom was never a parent child relationship. She was a good mom when she was sober, but just couldn't stay sober to be a good mom.
Now for some good news, and let me tell ya I needed some lol. Been very stressed.
I have been approved for my tummy tuck with my insurance. The did deny the breast lift though (of course) but I will still have it done. Now for some news I'm not quite sure will turn out. I had to have a colonoscopy last week because of a problem I was having. Welllllllllllll the doc could only see the bottom 75% so the following day I had to endure a barium enema (never again). I received a call yesterday that I need a second colonoscopy because of something they found during the barium enema. So I'm scheduled for that the first part of June. I have to find out if their is a problem and have it taken care of before I can even think about the TT. I'm sure it will be nothing but still have to have it checked out.
Some prayers for this family would be greatly appreciated. We all truly and faithfully believe in that POWER that prayer will give us.
HUGGSSSSSSSSSS,
Frankie
Dear Frankie,
You know I am praying for you and the kids.
Without you and Bob, who knows where or what the kids would be by now!
You have done an EXCELLENT job raising them, they are 2 great kids!
I am positive everything will turn out ok for the colonoscopy. (As a few of us know, you are just "fullait' lmao that must be the problem!! lol)
I am so happy that you got your approval.You have done a fantastic job of getting the weight off, you already look great!!
As for Jennifer's feelings about her TT at this time, you know what I said all along!! lol I swore it was the stupidest thing I ever did!! You said, you will feel differently after you start healing and feeling better, and I did, so you have an idea what you are in store for!
I am SO GLAD you went to a qualified plastic surgeon and not to the dr who did your bypass. Look at what happened to ME!
No woman should have to look like this, lol unless u want to become a male impersonator!!
HEYYYYYYYYYYY lookit that big ole package that guy has!! lmao.I can laugh about it but its NOT very funny to look like this!
Luv ya girl,
I know everything will turn out wonderfully.
D
I am so sorry about your and the children't loss. It is very hard on kids. My two adopted children came to us through foster care and their mom was an addict. They wonder all the time what happened to her. It never hurts to remember the good in people for the kids sake.
I am very happy for you on the TT. It is nice to be rid of all that mess, I can't wait for mine. I will say a prayer for you and your family.
Wendy
Oh Frankie I m so sad for your grand kids loss. But they are so fortunate to at least have you. From my own personal life I know both sides of the coin they are experiencing. See I am an adoptee who was adopted by an alcoholic who drank herself to death.. So this touches my heart even more so because of it. I am praying for you and the kids and also for nothing but a negative outcome for your own medical testing.