So upset.

Man I just can't believe all the things I am going thru right now. My surgey has been postponed and not sure for how long with everything that is happening. It started with the abnormal EKG. Then had to do 2 day stress test. Then last wensday went and see Cardologist and was set up for Heart Cath this next Monday on the 22nd. Well I find out this morning they are not in my network neither the Hospital or Dr. So I had to call another Cardologist and make new appointment so now I go to talk about results again on June 1st with Dr. Colfer in Petoskey. I feel better with this one anyways he is more awear of the family history so..... But if he says yes we need to do heart cath. then that is like a month out now. So.... that puts things farther out but what ever comes of it . It is better to be safe then sorry so.... I am just not giving up on the RNY it will happen at the right time. Thanks for letting me vent. Wishing everyone a wonderful nite. Hugs Debbie M

I know you are really disappointed in how things are turning out. You are doing the right thing in taking care of the issues before you have WLS. You certainly don't want any unneccessary risks. So keep thinking positive and it really will happen when the time is right. Then you can have your RNY with enthusiasm and confidence that you will have a healthy recovery. Cheryl

Thanks for the kind words. I just needed to vent. lol Debbie M

My dearest friend, Believe in your heart that this will all work out, trust that God will take care of your needs, and have faith in HIM and that everything happens for a reason. Do not let this worry or burden you, as it will not do your heart any good. I am here for you as you are aware, phone or email, any time, any day. It is best you take care of your heart now than anything else in the world, because you will win in the outcome. Precautionary measures need to be made to present optimum results and in this particular case, I would expect that your heart is priority one. I tried to call you last night and left a message, just to say hello. I'm back to work on 1st shift now, and as you may have read or not, I've 2 appointments now with plastic surgeons, one on the 27th in Ypsilanti @ Barix, and one on June 19th in Saginaw. All I can do is hope for the best, we may not always get what we want WHEN we want it but it will happen when it is the right time. Believe that my dear friend. Many hugs and blessings your way... Your Angel, friend, and personal venting space, Stacey

Thanks my I will try and call you thursday after I get out of work. Good luck with your appointments. that they work out for you. Your the best anyone could ask for. Thank You so much. hugs Debbie M

Oh Debbie! This waiting can be so frustrating, I know! But as you said, better safe than sorry. Things go the way they do for a reason, so just ride it out and you will get there! At least you are approved and know it will happen eventually! Doesn't make it much easier though, I know. Hang in there and feel free to come to the WLS meetings (next one is Monday, the 22nd @ 7pm)...lots of support there too! Hugs, Theresa

Thanks so much for your support. I am hoping to make it to the meeting have to wait for hours to come out for next week. Thanks again for your kind words. Debbie M

Debbie, I am sorry you have to go through some delays. I too had a little of that to go through having to do with my sleep apnia. Even though you know it is for the best, waiting is never easy. Leeanne

Thanks you are right there waiting is not easy. It will all come out in the end I know. Thanks for your kind words. Debbie M

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