It's a new day

Thanks everyone for your great words yet again. Erin, you are right. Who shares meatballs with a stranger? I feel better today although a bit hungover and tired as hell. I am spending the evening laying in bed and watching Capote. I am then going to sleep many hours in a row. I am looking forward to being alone tonight and just quiet. My job is so stressful that some relaxing is what is called for. You guys are awesome and really make feel not so alone. I wonder what I ever did to deserve such support. Even my drunken ramblings bring out the troops. You guys are so awesome-truly. Now, if only it was 5:00.

I'm glad you're feeling better today...you are one of the strongest women i've seen on this board, i know you can get through this. Just remember , it's his loss, and you are only gonna move on to bigger and better things in your life. Of course you don't deserve to go through all of this, but if he sucks as bad as you say, he doesn't deserve you. Just keep on moving along and try not to get into a depression, surround yourself with friends, ppl who love you and do your best to laugh and be happy. My best to you! Hugs Linda p.s. you did better than i would have if i was drinking, at least you spelled everything right! LOL

Oh, let me tell you, I am the grammar queen and spell correctly in any state of mind. Matt does suck, but he did not walk out on me or anything. His leaving was a mutual decision and we are both very sad about it. Things just do not work out sometimes. He did do something to seal the deal on what was supposed to be a trial separation though. He sucks for that, and I am mostly pissed off about that. I used to joke that I would be the old crazy cat lady until I met Matt. I was 30 then. Now I really AM the old crazy cat lady. he left me with 3 to care for, and I am now pushing 40. "Must Love Cats" will be my title to my personal ad when I am ready.

Cute "Must Love Cats"!!. Seems like you're feeling a little better. Enjoy your day ~Simone