I'm jumping out of my skin!
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Thanks Pam, You have been very helpful to me! I have people tell me to go with the band first and if that doesn't work for me to have the RNY. I am leaning towards the RNY because I need as many restrictions as I can get because I know I could learn to work around the band, and that would defeat using that tool. I know that sugar is a problem with me in that I like it! If I have the RNY and try to consume sugar, then I will have a terrible dumping experience and learn quickly that I can't tollerate that. However, there are those that can eat sugar with the RNY and not dump too. It's a huge decision and a difficult one for me to make.
Ally
Congratulations! Dr. Rumbaut is an excellent choice! Personally, I chose the RNY for 3 reasons.
1. I know myself, I know how easily I would eat around the band.
2. Fills up here in New England are non-existant, I'd have to travel quite a bit
3. I have diabetes. RNY changes the blood sugars instantly, with a band the diabetes gets better as you lose weight.
Even though both Cathy and Dr. R tried to get me interested in the band, I looked the other way. If I was going to do this, I was going to go as drastic as I could for the biggest change. I'm glad I did, because when I was in Mexico, I met 4 people who had bands and were there for RNY because they did not lose enough or their band had eroded. I really did not want to go through or pay for this WLS twice!
I wish you all the luck in the world, I know how hard the decision is. Do what's best for you and your cir****tances!
Bonnie
Thank you Bonnie!
I would hate it if I had the band put in and was unsuccessful with the procedure and had to go back for the RNY.
I have a brother that is two years older than me, 53, that suffered a massive stroke last November and will never be able to live without assistance and is currently in a nursing home. He was obese and this has been such a wake up call for me. The clock is ticking and is only a matter of time that I could have serious problems if I don't do something immediately. I feel that the RNY is going to by my best option. I am caring for my brother and my mother and father now, and I have to get my health back so I can be there for them as well. I won't be any good to them if I don't help myself first!
Thanks again,
Ally