Highest high/lowest low

Yesterday I had the highest high and the lowest low. In the morning I received an email from Nina at Dr. Aceves' office letting me know that I have a surgery date!!!! February 5, 2005. Barely a month away! Later I got an email about my mortgage. See, I'm refinancing my house and using the money to pay for surgery. They told me everything was finished, and I was supposed to close today, Friday. Suddenly though, the underwriter decided to deny my loan. I don't understand what's going on, and I am **SO** upset! I can't pay for the surgery without this! Plus I owe money to my exhusband and he's bothering me for it. I was really devastated. I just don't know what to do. I am trying to gather my thoughts today and figure out an alternative. I just want to crawl into my bed and cry.

awww don't worry Jennifer these things have a way of working themselves out. I know how you feel. I have had to wait 2 years for this surgery and ended up taking out a loan from medi-credit. Maybe you can try them and see if they will give you a loan that you can pay off when you are able to refi?? Good luck hon.. No sad faces.. Cindy

Jennifer, So sorry to hear this, I can imagine how disappointed you are. Get your thoughts straight and know that you will find a way to resolve this. Remember that when one door closes a window opens. Ivonne

Jennifer, I'm so sorry to hear about this setback. Hopefully you will be able to find out what the reason for the change was and get it corrected. I wish you the best and hope you will be able to keep your surgery date after all. Cheri

Well, after much wailing and nashing of teeth, I have located....ummmmm.... alternative financing. I may have sold my soul to the we shall see. Thanks for your support. It's so maddening to have it so close and then feel it slip away. February 5..... I have my countdown calendar on my computer desktop!