Surgery date scheduled and having nightmares

My surgery date has been scheduled for a couple of months now and as the date gets closer, April 5th, the more I am having nightmares. I am not one that dreams very often but these dreams are disturbing. I wake up crying or just deathly afraid. Has anyone else had this happen to them? It's not that I'm afraid for myself, it's my children and husband that are my biggest concern. Thank you all for the support that I have received in the last few weeks. I can see that I'm going to need all the support that I can get. Good luck to all the pre ops and congrats and continued success to the posts.

Sharon, I don't know how to answer your question about nightmares, but I can assure you we all felt the fear. I too worried what would happen to my kids and DH after something happening to me. I questioned myself over and over about this being a selfish decision. I think these are all normal feelings to have. Have you been to a support group meeting? Maybe one before surgery would be good. We had one at TAMC last night and it went very well. Maybe that would help. E-mail me privately if you would like, ([email protected]) or if you are ever in the Presque-Isle area, get in touch with me. If you would like to call, e-mail me and I can call you anytime. I have unlimited long distance calling. I'd love to be of as much help to you as you need!!!! Kell

Hi Sharon, I can't say that I had nightmares, but the fear is real. This is a non-reversible surgery that WILL change your life forever. I must have back out of this surgery at least a dozen times in my head. I just kept telling myself that if God wants to take me home then He is going to take me home. I am 6weeks out now and have not regretted having the surgery once. I think as time gets closer, it just really hits us that it is real. Before you know it the surgery will be over and you will be on your way to a leaner healthier you. relax and try to take things in stride. you put alot of thought into this decision and fear should not be allowed to change your mind. WE are all here to help you and support you. take care, Val