Hi all...

Hi Ron, Did I ever tell you how much I like your sense of humor? You're right on the money with the chocolate, lol. I hope this crankfest ends soon... Thanks for being there, Casey

Casey: I don't post a lot, not because I don't care--but what I've found there is an emotional element to this process after surgery which often leaves me bewildered. So, first of all---you have been a wonderful role model for us newbies in the loser world. And, what you are modeling right now is a big aspect of recovery---that is asking for what you need and you are doing it. I think I've discovered that we fatties of the world tend to overnuture people around us and don't leave enough for ourselves. And, then when we ask for help--people are suprised but are only too happy to give it---if we ask. I've spent many years not asking or discussing my feelings or being there for others. I think its a "hangover" from our old life and one we have to look out for. So, don't give it all away--give away what you can spare but never forget to ask when you need the be on the other end of the giving. You obviously are well respected, appreciated and loved by folks on this site obvious in the number of posts you've received. Take care of yourself. Jane

Jane, Thank you for the reassurement. I know exactly what you mean about taking care of everyone else. I know that's a part of the whole scheme of things...but you're right I do need help and I see I have recieved it. Casey

Hi Casey ~ I have been in a funk myself. I am stuck at 98 pounds lost. Just can't seem to reach 100 pounds. It's been one month since I last lost a pound. This winter weather has me depressed. I need some sunlight and some spring weather. Hang in there sweetie!! We all love ya!!

Hi Terri, Sorry to hear you have the funk too. Do you have a gym or mall near by? That can help with getting things moving (walking around). We go to the Y in Old Town...has a nice indoor track to go on. Mostly older folks who use it but we like to bring our son in his stroller on it. There is a track upstairs to run on. You hang in there too! Thanks, Casey

Casey, I am sorry that you are in a funk. I too am one of those people who appreciate you and all that you have to offer to others that are on this journey. When I was pre-op, you answered so many questions for me and offered a lot of great advice. After surgery, you have been a huge help to me--not only have you answered questions and offered support when needed, but you also supplied a lot of great recipes. I always look forward to your posts and your replies--you always have great things to say. Jill