Why can't I just move on? and get over it.

without going into long details and avoid drama.  I have 2 sister-in-laws that are so jealous of everyone, even each other, I was both their friends for years, till each other were jealous of that.  So i've just tried to move on, I dont' want or need the childish drama.  Its so crazy.  BUT, I am still insulted when I email them and get a reply like this:      YES






or                                NO



my DH so wants his family to be close and insists we meet for summer gathering and xmas, and I'm ok with it, but, I walk away, hurt and insulted.  I think I talked about this a few weeks ago. at our recent xmas party, they were texting each other (one is in FL).  I wanted to grab the phone and throw it outside.  so can you guys, tell me how to move on?  how to go to these functions and have a good time and ignore them?  All the kids, and DH's are fine, its just the 2 of them.  I need to be tough. and I"m not. 

I think that there are some people out there that you almost have to just "ignore" in some fashion or another.  I know you can't really ignore them, but just kinda ignore what they say or how they say it.  Easier said than done when it's family.  Sorry I don't have a good answer for you!   Be like a duck and water.......let it all "slide"!!   Hope they shape up soon!
Ruth

Oh Cheryl - families are tough, not something that I have good experiences with - sometimes you can only control what you can control about yourself, you can't change the other person.

therapy works for me!